By Alex Vitti
A festival held in honor of Lupercus was celebrated February 15th. The festival was celebrated as a spring festival. Their calendar was different at that time, with February falling in early springtime.
One of the customs of the young people was name-drawing. On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man drew a slip. The girl whose name was chosen was to be his sweetheart for the year?
Legend has it that the holiday became Valentine's Day after a priest named Valentine. Valentine was a priest in Rome at the time Christianity was a new religion. The Emperor at that time, Claudius II, ordered the Roman soldiers NOT to marry or become engaged.
Claudius believed that as married men, his soldiers would want to stay home with their families rather than fight his wars. Valentine defied the Emperor's decree and secretly married the young couples. He was eventually arrested, imprisoned, and put to death.
Valentine was beheaded on February 14th, the eve of the Roman holiday Lupercalia. After his death, Valentine was named a saint. As Rome became more Christian, the priests moved the spring holiday from the 15th of February to the 14th - Valentine's Day. Now the holiday honored Saint Valentine instead of Lupercus.
But, this is just one side of the story...
So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers.
Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today.
Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
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Thursday, January 31, 2008
How to Choose the Best Valentine E-card
by Molly Rose
Before the 'how' let's analyze the 'why'. Why do I need the best e-card? Why can't I just settle for the first one that pops up on the free e-cards site?
If these are the questions that have arisen then try and answer the following one...Do I fall in love everyday? If the answer is yes, then you can not only choose any random free valentine e-cards, but even if you don't bother it's not going to make that much of a difference!! But if you've answered in the negative, you have the single most important reason to look for the best.
We can now move on to the 'how' in question. The answer is dating websites. These websites are at your service and their main purpose is to make your loved one feel special and...well, loved.
Valentine's Day is celebrated the world over by people in love. The reason this day is so unique is because not everyone has the guts to be gushy-mushy everyday. Most people need an excuse to be silly and Valentine's Day provides just that excuse.
Months before Valentines Day, free romantic e-card websites start overflowing with thousands of cards for you to choose from. They are certainly trying their best to make your life easier, but end up confusing you thoroughly and leave you wondering whether it's worth the effort. To avoid feeling all fed up and unenthusiastic, you should first visit a dating website with high popularity and check out some tips on how to choose the best from a plethora of free romantic e-cards. These websites may even reduce your work by providing links to good quality free e-cards. There's half your work done.
While e-card hunting, ensure the 'free' part is true right at the beginning. You may end up spending a lot of time surfing the site and even finalizing a card only to realize that they expect you to pay for it. Also, make sure the website isn't too outdated.
For couples just fallen in love, a card with a touch of humor would be a bigger hit than a card full of boring old love lines. Though humor is appreciated at all ages, it may be a good idea to send your wife of fifteen years a card subtly telling her how appreciated she is and how much light she's brought into your life. Free valentine e-cards are also available for parents, grand-parents, siblings and other relatives. But the thing to remember is whether the recipient is net-savvy enough or not. You may send an e-card and not wish them personally assuming they've seen it!
Last of all, but by no means least important, send as many cards as you want. Like I said before, special days like these give you a license to do silly, happy things and not give explanations for them. So go ahead and spread joy. It's free!!
About the Author
Molly Rose has a great interest in writing articles, blogs etc on online dating. She also works for http://www.eromance.com as a content writer for dating topics.
Before the 'how' let's analyze the 'why'. Why do I need the best e-card? Why can't I just settle for the first one that pops up on the free e-cards site?
If these are the questions that have arisen then try and answer the following one...Do I fall in love everyday? If the answer is yes, then you can not only choose any random free valentine e-cards, but even if you don't bother it's not going to make that much of a difference!! But if you've answered in the negative, you have the single most important reason to look for the best.
We can now move on to the 'how' in question. The answer is dating websites. These websites are at your service and their main purpose is to make your loved one feel special and...well, loved.
Valentine's Day is celebrated the world over by people in love. The reason this day is so unique is because not everyone has the guts to be gushy-mushy everyday. Most people need an excuse to be silly and Valentine's Day provides just that excuse.
Months before Valentines Day, free romantic e-card websites start overflowing with thousands of cards for you to choose from. They are certainly trying their best to make your life easier, but end up confusing you thoroughly and leave you wondering whether it's worth the effort. To avoid feeling all fed up and unenthusiastic, you should first visit a dating website with high popularity and check out some tips on how to choose the best from a plethora of free romantic e-cards. These websites may even reduce your work by providing links to good quality free e-cards. There's half your work done.
While e-card hunting, ensure the 'free' part is true right at the beginning. You may end up spending a lot of time surfing the site and even finalizing a card only to realize that they expect you to pay for it. Also, make sure the website isn't too outdated.
For couples just fallen in love, a card with a touch of humor would be a bigger hit than a card full of boring old love lines. Though humor is appreciated at all ages, it may be a good idea to send your wife of fifteen years a card subtly telling her how appreciated she is and how much light she's brought into your life. Free valentine e-cards are also available for parents, grand-parents, siblings and other relatives. But the thing to remember is whether the recipient is net-savvy enough or not. You may send an e-card and not wish them personally assuming they've seen it!
Last of all, but by no means least important, send as many cards as you want. Like I said before, special days like these give you a license to do silly, happy things and not give explanations for them. So go ahead and spread joy. It's free!!
About the Author
Molly Rose has a great interest in writing articles, blogs etc on online dating. She also works for http://www.eromance.com as a content writer for dating topics.
10 Tips for Giving Her an Unforgettable Valentine's Day
by Janette Vince
It's Valentine's Day--and you're looking to make this one special for your wife or girlfriend. Valentine's Day is often not a difficult holiday for guys. Most women love chocolates, flowers, and dinner at a nice restaurant. But if you want to spice things up a bit, read on. There are plenty of ways to get creative and original with your Valentine's Day plans--and surprise her with something she's not expecting. Here are ten tips for making this Valentine's Day one she'll never forget.
Name a star. What's more romantic than naming a star after your beloved? Most star-naming companies will give you a beautiful naming certificate, a constellation chart showing the location of your star, and other extras all contained in a beautiful presentation box. This is a highly romantic gift that's sure to bring a smile to her face.
A romantic picnic. Why not put a spin on your typical romantic dinner with an adventurous picnic? Meet her at work and whisk her away to a secluded, romantic spot with a bottle of champagne and some gourmet take-out from a local restaurant. Light some candles and have a picnic in the living room--complete with soft music and romantic ambience. She'll love the spontaneous feel of this dinner date.
Take her shopping. If she loves to shop, she'll appreciate this thoughtful gift. Take her on a shopping spree at her favorite store. Spend time shopping with her, and be engaged. Suggest clothes for her to try, make suggestions for stores, and be sure to shower her with complements whenever she tries something flattering on! If you really want to make her happy, hire a personal shopper to take her out for a day. She's sure to feel more than a little spoiled.
Give a spa gift. If the woman in your life is overstressed and under-pampered, she's probably overdue for a day at the spa. Why not get her a gift certificate for the full treatment at a local health spa? Get her a full massage, mud bath, skin treatments, anything you'd think she would appreciate. She's sure to feel pampered and loved with a gift like this.
Adopt an animal. We're not suggesting you bring home a puppy or kitten--although that might be a good idea too. If your wife or girlfriend is an animal lover, why not "adopt" an endangered animal in her name? Some animal refuges allow people to donate money to support a specific animal, providing for its care and feeding for a certain amount of time. When you adopt an animal, you'll get a picture of the animal, updates on its health and status, and even a framed adoption certificate. Definitely a great gift for a woman who loves animals.
Bedroom board games. If you're often both too tired to do more than sleep in the bedroom lately, she might appreciate a little night-time attention on Valentine's Day. Why not make things a little more interesting? Pick up an adult board game like Monogamy, a sexy game that opens with some intriguing conversation starters, and then advances the intimacy until you can't help but get close. It's just the thing to liven it up in the bedroom--and give her a memorable Valentine's Day treat.
Jewelry. Yes, we know diamonds are a traditional Valentine's Day jewelry gift. And most women love diamonds, so it's a relatively safe gift. But why not get a little creative with your jewelry choice this year?
This type of gift requires some consideration--you'll have to pay attention to the type of jewelry she loves. Look at what she wears. Some women only wear gold or silver, and some like large, bold pieces while others like a more delicate or antique look. Once you've got her style down, pick a stone that she'll love--many women have a special place in their hearts for opals, emeralds, or amethysts. This is sure to show you know her tastes--and she'll definitely feel loved.
Dance lessons. Why not take her out for a night of dancing? Women love men who are willing to get out on the dance floor as well. Book salsa lessons, tango lessons, or ballroom dancing together. She'll love the romantic ambience, and you're sure to get ample opportunities to show off your moves--both on the dance floor and off.
Marketers traditionally emblazon everything from underwear to shot glasses with red hearts to sell them on Valentine's Day. But that doesn't mean everything with a heart on it is a good gift for the occasion. Put some thought and planning into your next Valentine's Day gift, and don't be afraid to get creative. She's sure to remember it as the best Valentine's Day she's ever had.
About the Author
It's Valentine's Day--and you're looking to make this one special for your wife or girlfriend. Valentine's Day is often not a difficult holiday for guys. Most women love chocolates, flowers, and dinner at a nice restaurant. But if you want to spice things up a bit, read on. There are plenty of ways to get creative and original with your Valentine's Day plans--and surprise her with something she's not expecting.
It's Valentine's Day--and you're looking to make this one special for your wife or girlfriend. Valentine's Day is often not a difficult holiday for guys. Most women love chocolates, flowers, and dinner at a nice restaurant. But if you want to spice things up a bit, read on. There are plenty of ways to get creative and original with your Valentine's Day plans--and surprise her with something she's not expecting. Here are ten tips for making this Valentine's Day one she'll never forget.
Name a star. What's more romantic than naming a star after your beloved? Most star-naming companies will give you a beautiful naming certificate, a constellation chart showing the location of your star, and other extras all contained in a beautiful presentation box. This is a highly romantic gift that's sure to bring a smile to her face.
A romantic picnic. Why not put a spin on your typical romantic dinner with an adventurous picnic? Meet her at work and whisk her away to a secluded, romantic spot with a bottle of champagne and some gourmet take-out from a local restaurant. Light some candles and have a picnic in the living room--complete with soft music and romantic ambience. She'll love the spontaneous feel of this dinner date.
Take her shopping. If she loves to shop, she'll appreciate this thoughtful gift. Take her on a shopping spree at her favorite store. Spend time shopping with her, and be engaged. Suggest clothes for her to try, make suggestions for stores, and be sure to shower her with complements whenever she tries something flattering on! If you really want to make her happy, hire a personal shopper to take her out for a day. She's sure to feel more than a little spoiled.
Give a spa gift. If the woman in your life is overstressed and under-pampered, she's probably overdue for a day at the spa. Why not get her a gift certificate for the full treatment at a local health spa? Get her a full massage, mud bath, skin treatments, anything you'd think she would appreciate. She's sure to feel pampered and loved with a gift like this.
Adopt an animal. We're not suggesting you bring home a puppy or kitten--although that might be a good idea too. If your wife or girlfriend is an animal lover, why not "adopt" an endangered animal in her name? Some animal refuges allow people to donate money to support a specific animal, providing for its care and feeding for a certain amount of time. When you adopt an animal, you'll get a picture of the animal, updates on its health and status, and even a framed adoption certificate. Definitely a great gift for a woman who loves animals.
Bedroom board games. If you're often both too tired to do more than sleep in the bedroom lately, she might appreciate a little night-time attention on Valentine's Day. Why not make things a little more interesting? Pick up an adult board game like Monogamy, a sexy game that opens with some intriguing conversation starters, and then advances the intimacy until you can't help but get close. It's just the thing to liven it up in the bedroom--and give her a memorable Valentine's Day treat.
Jewelry. Yes, we know diamonds are a traditional Valentine's Day jewelry gift. And most women love diamonds, so it's a relatively safe gift. But why not get a little creative with your jewelry choice this year?
This type of gift requires some consideration--you'll have to pay attention to the type of jewelry she loves. Look at what she wears. Some women only wear gold or silver, and some like large, bold pieces while others like a more delicate or antique look. Once you've got her style down, pick a stone that she'll love--many women have a special place in their hearts for opals, emeralds, or amethysts. This is sure to show you know her tastes--and she'll definitely feel loved.
Dance lessons. Why not take her out for a night of dancing? Women love men who are willing to get out on the dance floor as well. Book salsa lessons, tango lessons, or ballroom dancing together. She'll love the romantic ambience, and you're sure to get ample opportunities to show off your moves--both on the dance floor and off.
Marketers traditionally emblazon everything from underwear to shot glasses with red hearts to sell them on Valentine's Day. But that doesn't mean everything with a heart on it is a good gift for the occasion. Put some thought and planning into your next Valentine's Day gift, and don't be afraid to get creative. She's sure to remember it as the best Valentine's Day she's ever had.
About the Author
It's Valentine's Day--and you're looking to make this one special for your wife or girlfriend. Valentine's Day is often not a difficult holiday for guys. Most women love chocolates, flowers, and dinner at a nice restaurant. But if you want to spice things up a bit, read on. There are plenty of ways to get creative and original with your Valentine's Day plans--and surprise her with something she's not expecting.
Valentine's Day Ideas that Won't Leave Your Wallet Feeling Empty
by Jen Wasilewski
Valentine's day is right around the corner and for many that means nothing but a stress filled, emotion forced, expensive nightmare of a day. It seems all to often that women expect to much and men try to little. What is it about this one day that drives even the sanest souls to emotional madness? Valentines day instills in the brain visions of movie romance and hallmark heart warming moments that are often impossible to obtain. So how do you make the most out of Valentines Day? While dollar signs can lead the way to terrific gifts that put a smile on your honey's face you don't have to spend a fortune to appeal to her fantasy. Here are some terrific alternatives for those who want to woo their lover without emptying their wallet.
* A Spa Day At Home:
A day at the spa can be a sad day for your wallet. Buying your princess a full day of pampering can cost you well over a hundred dollars, but that doesn't mean you can't give her the day she deserves. Turn your place into a spa this valentines. Give her the works from head to toe. Something as simple as a body massage a foot soak and her favorite movie (even if it is a all out chick flick) can give her one of the best valentines days she's has without burning a loveless hole in your wallet.
o What You Need
o Massage Oils in Relaxing Scents (Lavender is Usually a Good Choice)
o Bath Robe and Pajama Pants for Her
o A "Chick" Flick
o A Decadent Snack like Chocolate Covered Strawberry's or her favorite Ice cream.
* Make Her a Meal
It's always been said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but thats true for woman to. Don't let your lady fool you, when it comes to food, women love to eat just as much as men do. Making her a meal at home can not only save you a few bucks, but it also will mean a lot more to her than a meal at her favorite restaurant. Not the best in the kitchen? Stick to something simple and use a cook book.
* Make Candles Together:
Nothing says romance quite like candle light so what better way to share your love with your lady than to have an arts and crafts night. Visit your local craft store and find candle making kits. They are generally inexpensive and come in a variety of colors and themes to choose one. Since it is Valentines day you may want to stick with a bit of tradition and go for wax in red hues. If you want to be really sentimental keep the candle around and burn it on your next anniversary as a simple to your passion and love.
* Go On a Picnic:
If your lucky enough to live in the warmer parts of the world consider taking her on a picnic. Picnics are something that are often over looked but can be a terrific way to spend a charming day or night together. Nothing says I love you like a bottle of wine under a starry sky. Sounds like a terrific idea but what if it's snowing outside you ask? Bring the picnic inside of course! There is something romantic about picnics even if they are inside. Dining a little differently will show you put some thought into this very special day.
About the Author
Treat to your Valentine to comfort with gifts for Hue. Treat to your Valentine to comfort with gifts for Hue. Hue specializes in ladies legwear including socks, tights, and leggings at Hue.
Valentine's day is right around the corner and for many that means nothing but a stress filled, emotion forced, expensive nightmare of a day. It seems all to often that women expect to much and men try to little. What is it about this one day that drives even the sanest souls to emotional madness? Valentines day instills in the brain visions of movie romance and hallmark heart warming moments that are often impossible to obtain. So how do you make the most out of Valentines Day? While dollar signs can lead the way to terrific gifts that put a smile on your honey's face you don't have to spend a fortune to appeal to her fantasy. Here are some terrific alternatives for those who want to woo their lover without emptying their wallet.
* A Spa Day At Home:
A day at the spa can be a sad day for your wallet. Buying your princess a full day of pampering can cost you well over a hundred dollars, but that doesn't mean you can't give her the day she deserves. Turn your place into a spa this valentines. Give her the works from head to toe. Something as simple as a body massage a foot soak and her favorite movie (even if it is a all out chick flick) can give her one of the best valentines days she's has without burning a loveless hole in your wallet.
o What You Need
o Massage Oils in Relaxing Scents (Lavender is Usually a Good Choice)
o Bath Robe and Pajama Pants for Her
o A "Chick" Flick
o A Decadent Snack like Chocolate Covered Strawberry's or her favorite Ice cream.
* Make Her a Meal
It's always been said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but thats true for woman to. Don't let your lady fool you, when it comes to food, women love to eat just as much as men do. Making her a meal at home can not only save you a few bucks, but it also will mean a lot more to her than a meal at her favorite restaurant. Not the best in the kitchen? Stick to something simple and use a cook book.
* Make Candles Together:
Nothing says romance quite like candle light so what better way to share your love with your lady than to have an arts and crafts night. Visit your local craft store and find candle making kits. They are generally inexpensive and come in a variety of colors and themes to choose one. Since it is Valentines day you may want to stick with a bit of tradition and go for wax in red hues. If you want to be really sentimental keep the candle around and burn it on your next anniversary as a simple to your passion and love.
* Go On a Picnic:
If your lucky enough to live in the warmer parts of the world consider taking her on a picnic. Picnics are something that are often over looked but can be a terrific way to spend a charming day or night together. Nothing says I love you like a bottle of wine under a starry sky. Sounds like a terrific idea but what if it's snowing outside you ask? Bring the picnic inside of course! There is something romantic about picnics even if they are inside. Dining a little differently will show you put some thought into this very special day.
About the Author
Treat to your Valentine to comfort with gifts for Hue. Treat to your Valentine to comfort with gifts for Hue. Hue specializes in ladies legwear including socks, tights, and leggings at Hue.
12 Ideas for Valentine's Day If You're Not Part of a Couple
When we think of Valentine?s Day, we tend to think of two lovers celebrating together. If you aren�t paired at this time, don�t let yourself get left out! Here are 14 greatways to celebrate Valentine�s Day YOUR way.
1. Celebrate with a child!
If you don�t have one, borrow one! Invite your niece over for an afternoon of tea with tiaras and tutus, making Valentines, and reading Valentine�s books. Got a boy inyour life? How about some slap-jack or Pente, video games and a candle-lit dinner with fondue � to keep those hands busy! Nice red catsup is good enough for the sauce!
2. Give a party at a children�s shelter.
The Volunteer Director is trained to help you! Simple refreshments, favors, plan a game, tie-dye t-shirts, crafts, play the piano and sing. It�s the thought and the companionship that count. Games? Play musical chairs, tying big red bows to the front of the chairs. Pin the Lips on Ms. Valentine � draw �her� on posterboard � use moving eyes, false eyelashes and pipe cleaners for hair. Put eachkid�s name on a pair of red lips cut out of construction paper with tape on back. Blindfold them with a Valentine scarf and proceed! Valentine Bingo � make bingo cards with February-theme items: groundhogs, Presidents Lincoln and Washington, candy, hearts, doves, lovers, Valentines, etc. Serve �Love Potion� for the beverage.
3. Make it a special day for someone in a retirement or nursing home.
Put on that bright red sweater and your Valentine tie, scarf, or suspender(http://store.yahoo.com/tiebar2/valentineday.html ) and head on over! You will be SO WELCOME. One friend of mine takes something he bakes called Terribly Naughty. I believe it has pecans, peanut butter, chocolate morsels, marshmallows, butterscotch pieces, pure butter, at least a pound of sugar, and brandy in it. You could also make the Ultimate Killer Cookie of All Time(http://www.fabulousfoods.com/recipes/dessert/cookies/ultcookie.html). He's very popular! �All My Lovin�� and other Valentine�s braces available here: http://www.rainbowconnection.com/index.php/cPath/22_71 .
4. Have friends of all ages over for a Valentine's Party.
Sing love songs, watch a video, make an outrageously beautiful buffet spread. Have everyone bring a grab bag gift. Have a poetry contest. Here�s a list of Romantic songs: http://www.inspirationpoint.com/ipmusic.htm .
5. Call up your son and daughter-in-law and tell them you're coming for the weekend to take care of the kids so they can go celebrate.
Pack the parents off, and then bake Valentine�s cookies with the kids and have a red dinner � red jello hearts, heart-shaped pasta with tomato sauce or heart-shaped pizza, Hawaiian punch and cinnamon hearts in hot cocoa. �Willie Wonka� video, everyone gets in the big bed with Nana, snuggle-time, dogs included. Woo hoo!
6. Celebrate with your animal companion.
There's no more reliable source of love in our lives. Bake some homemade dog biscuits ( http://www.gurney.co.uk/pads/bone.htm ) . Take your dog for a special outing, and on the way, drop off your treats at the local animal shelter. Or take your animal companion with you to a nursing home or convalescent center. Many facilities are making this opportunity available for their guests. You can deck your dog, cat, ferret or rabbit in a festive Valentine scarf -http://www.pet-bandanas.com/valentines-bandanas.htm - for the occasion. Valentine�s sweaters, vests, ties, bows, boas! And anything else you need for your little furry friend - http://www.cosettescloset.com/valwear.html .
7. Enjoy the day helping others. A local place of worship might be building a house for Habitat or going Valentine caroling at a housing project. If not, why not? If not you, who? Organize something with your civic group, singles group or Sunday School class. If the New York Giants can do it, so can you. They visited patients in Children's Hospital of New York-Presbyterian on Valentine's Day.
8. Book a Valentine cruise on the Costa cruise line and dance the nights away.
Be a gentleman host, or dance with one! Gentlemen dance hosts "work" from 8 pm to 1 am every night, visiting with and dancing with women cruise guests. Great vacation for singles! Gentleman, don�t forget your red cummerbund and bowtie (http://store.yahoo.com/tiebar2/solcolcumbow.html ). Wait til the last minute when the rates go down really low.
9. Have the girls over for a Valentine Day Brunch.
Make pancakes and fried eggs shaped like hearts (http://www.romanticgifts.com/RomanticGifts/njscat.nsf/adminCatalog/E329061D73D3165188256A31001EE646!OpenDocument&15.+Kitchen+$+Dining ), serve with strawberry syrup, fresh strawberries, some nice crisp bacon, strawberry daiquiris and nice hot tea. Yum! Set a terminally romantic buffet table and fill the DR ceiling with pink and/or red helium balloons.
10. Check for special events in your town.
A special Valentine pops concert perhaps? Or get away for the weekend and see some great art. Bath House Center in Dallas, Texas, has an annual February exhibit called "El Corazon," "the heart." The Utah Symphony will be presenting a Valentine Symphony concert February 11 and 12.
11. Try something zany.
The Embassy Suites, Richmond, Va. offers the King�s Dominion Package � 2-room suite, breakfast, reception, indoor pool and Jacuzzi and 2 adult tickets to go ride that roller coaster! There�s more than one way to �lose your heart� on Valentine�s Day.
Or check out the Winter-storm adventure Ancient Cedars Spa, Vancouver Island at the Wickannish Inn, situated on a rocky promontory at the western most point of Chesterman Beach, at the gateway to Pacific Rim National Park Reserve (http://www.wickinn.com/Frames/HPfrm.htm ). Enjoy the spectacle of 20� waves pounding the coast from your room with ocean view, deep soaker tub, and fireplace for optimum viewing. All spa amenities, epicurean dining and �the storm-watching experience�. Slickers provided. Bring along some friends, your pet, and/or a good book!
12. Feed your heart!
Curl up with a good book. Read a super sappy and sentimental romance, or read about love itself -- �A General Theory of Love� is written by three doctors, one of whom writes like a poet (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0375709223/susandunnmome-20).
�Susan Dunn, MA, Life Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . Susan is the author of �Midlife Dating Survival Manual for Women,� and offers coaching, Internet courses and ebooks
1. Celebrate with a child!
If you don�t have one, borrow one! Invite your niece over for an afternoon of tea with tiaras and tutus, making Valentines, and reading Valentine�s books. Got a boy inyour life? How about some slap-jack or Pente, video games and a candle-lit dinner with fondue � to keep those hands busy! Nice red catsup is good enough for the sauce!
2. Give a party at a children�s shelter.
The Volunteer Director is trained to help you! Simple refreshments, favors, plan a game, tie-dye t-shirts, crafts, play the piano and sing. It�s the thought and the companionship that count. Games? Play musical chairs, tying big red bows to the front of the chairs. Pin the Lips on Ms. Valentine � draw �her� on posterboard � use moving eyes, false eyelashes and pipe cleaners for hair. Put eachkid�s name on a pair of red lips cut out of construction paper with tape on back. Blindfold them with a Valentine scarf and proceed! Valentine Bingo � make bingo cards with February-theme items: groundhogs, Presidents Lincoln and Washington, candy, hearts, doves, lovers, Valentines, etc. Serve �Love Potion� for the beverage.
3. Make it a special day for someone in a retirement or nursing home.
Put on that bright red sweater and your Valentine tie, scarf, or suspender(http://store.yahoo.com/tiebar2/valentineday.html ) and head on over! You will be SO WELCOME. One friend of mine takes something he bakes called Terribly Naughty. I believe it has pecans, peanut butter, chocolate morsels, marshmallows, butterscotch pieces, pure butter, at least a pound of sugar, and brandy in it. You could also make the Ultimate Killer Cookie of All Time(http://www.fabulousfoods.com/recipes/dessert/cookies/ultcookie.html). He's very popular! �All My Lovin�� and other Valentine�s braces available here: http://www.rainbowconnection.com/index.php/cPath/22_71 .
4. Have friends of all ages over for a Valentine's Party.
Sing love songs, watch a video, make an outrageously beautiful buffet spread. Have everyone bring a grab bag gift. Have a poetry contest. Here�s a list of Romantic songs: http://www.inspirationpoint.com/ipmusic.htm .
5. Call up your son and daughter-in-law and tell them you're coming for the weekend to take care of the kids so they can go celebrate.
Pack the parents off, and then bake Valentine�s cookies with the kids and have a red dinner � red jello hearts, heart-shaped pasta with tomato sauce or heart-shaped pizza, Hawaiian punch and cinnamon hearts in hot cocoa. �Willie Wonka� video, everyone gets in the big bed with Nana, snuggle-time, dogs included. Woo hoo!
6. Celebrate with your animal companion.
There's no more reliable source of love in our lives. Bake some homemade dog biscuits ( http://www.gurney.co.uk/pads/bone.htm ) . Take your dog for a special outing, and on the way, drop off your treats at the local animal shelter. Or take your animal companion with you to a nursing home or convalescent center. Many facilities are making this opportunity available for their guests. You can deck your dog, cat, ferret or rabbit in a festive Valentine scarf -http://www.pet-bandanas.com/valentines-bandanas.htm - for the occasion. Valentine�s sweaters, vests, ties, bows, boas! And anything else you need for your little furry friend - http://www.cosettescloset.com/valwear.html .
7. Enjoy the day helping others. A local place of worship might be building a house for Habitat or going Valentine caroling at a housing project. If not, why not? If not you, who? Organize something with your civic group, singles group or Sunday School class. If the New York Giants can do it, so can you. They visited patients in Children's Hospital of New York-Presbyterian on Valentine's Day.
8. Book a Valentine cruise on the Costa cruise line and dance the nights away.
Be a gentleman host, or dance with one! Gentlemen dance hosts "work" from 8 pm to 1 am every night, visiting with and dancing with women cruise guests. Great vacation for singles! Gentleman, don�t forget your red cummerbund and bowtie (http://store.yahoo.com/tiebar2/solcolcumbow.html ). Wait til the last minute when the rates go down really low.
9. Have the girls over for a Valentine Day Brunch.
Make pancakes and fried eggs shaped like hearts (http://www.romanticgifts.com/RomanticGifts/njscat.nsf/adminCatalog/E329061D73D3165188256A31001EE646!OpenDocument&15.+Kitchen+$+Dining ), serve with strawberry syrup, fresh strawberries, some nice crisp bacon, strawberry daiquiris and nice hot tea. Yum! Set a terminally romantic buffet table and fill the DR ceiling with pink and/or red helium balloons.
10. Check for special events in your town.
A special Valentine pops concert perhaps? Or get away for the weekend and see some great art. Bath House Center in Dallas, Texas, has an annual February exhibit called "El Corazon," "the heart." The Utah Symphony will be presenting a Valentine Symphony concert February 11 and 12.
11. Try something zany.
The Embassy Suites, Richmond, Va. offers the King�s Dominion Package � 2-room suite, breakfast, reception, indoor pool and Jacuzzi and 2 adult tickets to go ride that roller coaster! There�s more than one way to �lose your heart� on Valentine�s Day.
Or check out the Winter-storm adventure Ancient Cedars Spa, Vancouver Island at the Wickannish Inn, situated on a rocky promontory at the western most point of Chesterman Beach, at the gateway to Pacific Rim National Park Reserve (http://www.wickinn.com/Frames/HPfrm.htm ). Enjoy the spectacle of 20� waves pounding the coast from your room with ocean view, deep soaker tub, and fireplace for optimum viewing. All spa amenities, epicurean dining and �the storm-watching experience�. Slickers provided. Bring along some friends, your pet, and/or a good book!
12. Feed your heart!
Curl up with a good book. Read a super sappy and sentimental romance, or read about love itself -- �A General Theory of Love� is written by three doctors, one of whom writes like a poet (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0375709223/susandunnmome-20).
�Susan Dunn, MA, Life Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . Susan is the author of �Midlife Dating Survival Manual for Women,� and offers coaching, Internet courses and ebooks
I love you - How to say those magic words
by Alix Williams
Scared to say those three little words - notoriously the three most difficult words in the English language? So why not try saying them in someone else's language?
Here, for the shy or tongue-tied, is how to say 'I love you ' in just a selection of languages from across the world...
Arabic, Ana Behibak (to a male); Ana Behibek (to a female)
Binary code, 01101001001000000110110001101111011101100110010100 100000011110010110111101110101
Braille, : :..:| ..:| |..-.. .::":.., :.:;
Chinese, Gwa ai li (Amoy) Ngo oi nei (Cantonese)
Danish, Jeg elsker dig
Dutch, Ik hou van je
Elvish, Amin mela lle
Esperanto, Mi amas vin
French, J'taime
Gaelic (Scottish), The gradh agam ort
Gaelic (Irish), t'a gr'a agam dhuit
German, Ich liebe dich
Greek, S'agapo
Hindi, Mai tumaha pyar karta hu
Italian, Ti amo
Japanese, Aishite imasu
Klingon, qamuSHa'
Latin, Te amo
Morse, ∙∙ / ∙-∙∙ - - - ∙∙∙- ∙ / -∙- - - - - ∙∙-
Polish, Kocham cie
Portuguese, Eu te amo
Russian, Ya lyublyu tebya
Spanish, Te amo
Txt SMS message, ILUVU
Welsh, 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish, Ikh hob dikh lib
So go on - take a deep breath and give it a go this Valentine's Day!
Sources
http://www.faqs.org/faqs/romance-faq/part3/section-1.html http://www.links2love.com/i_love_you_languages.htm Ltl bk of luv txt. Michael O'Mara Books Limited. Schott B. Schott's Original Miscellany. Bloomsbury Books, 2002.
About the Author
Alix Williams is a regular contributor to the holistic website aromatherapy-stress-relief.com a home based UK business providing hand made unique Aromatherapy Gift ideas with Essential Oils.
copyright © 2007 Alix Williams (CUS Busting Ltd)
Scared to say those three little words - notoriously the three most difficult words in the English language? So why not try saying them in someone else's language?
Here, for the shy or tongue-tied, is how to say 'I love you ' in just a selection of languages from across the world...
Arabic, Ana Behibak (to a male); Ana Behibek (to a female)
Binary code, 01101001001000000110110001101111011101100110010100 100000011110010110111101110101
Braille, : :..:| ..:| |..-.. .::":.., :.:;
Chinese, Gwa ai li (Amoy) Ngo oi nei (Cantonese)
Danish, Jeg elsker dig
Dutch, Ik hou van je
Elvish, Amin mela lle
Esperanto, Mi amas vin
French, J'taime
Gaelic (Scottish), The gradh agam ort
Gaelic (Irish), t'a gr'a agam dhuit
German, Ich liebe dich
Greek, S'agapo
Hindi, Mai tumaha pyar karta hu
Italian, Ti amo
Japanese, Aishite imasu
Klingon, qamuSHa'
Latin, Te amo
Morse, ∙∙ / ∙-∙∙ - - - ∙∙∙- ∙ / -∙- - - - - ∙∙-
Polish, Kocham cie
Portuguese, Eu te amo
Russian, Ya lyublyu tebya
Spanish, Te amo
Txt SMS message, ILUVU
Welsh, 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish, Ikh hob dikh lib
So go on - take a deep breath and give it a go this Valentine's Day!
Sources
http://www.faqs.org/faqs/romance-faq/part3/section-1.html http://www.links2love.com/i_love_you_languages.htm Ltl bk of luv txt. Michael O'Mara Books Limited. Schott B. Schott's Original Miscellany. Bloomsbury Books, 2002.
About the Author
Alix Williams is a regular contributor to the holistic website aromatherapy-stress-relief.com a home based UK business providing hand made unique Aromatherapy Gift ideas with Essential Oils.
copyright © 2007 Alix Williams (CUS Busting Ltd)
Send Love Sms Messages To Your Loved Ones On This Valentine's Day
by Armughan Riaz
Candies, flowers and gifts are exchanged between loved ones on every Valentines day. Why do we celebrate this Valentine's day, it is still a mystery. But it is always in our mind that February is a month of Romance. How to celebrate this lovely day and with whom, is always a question of every young boy or a girl. When we did not had mobiles, we used to send love messages to our loved ones via Love Cards, Greeting cards, Emails etc. But now things change, we prefer to show our emotions by sending sms messages. In every country, on valentines day, there is exchange of millions of love sms messages on this romance day. I have collected some beautiful cute love and romantic sms messages here. You may just copy and send these cool Valentine's sms messages to your beloved ones on this romance day.
Without Love -- dayz are Sad day moan day tears day waste day thirst day fright day shatter day... so be in Love everyday...Wish u a Happy Valentine's Day
Days may end, night may fall, but i will be there for you till we won't see each other at all. sun may rise, moon may fall, but i think my life would never be this nice if i never knew you at all.
All i ever wanted was some1 to care for me. all i ever wanted was someone who would be there for me.all i ever wanted was someone who would be true.all i ever wanted was someone like you
Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.
Every Hour I think of you Every Minute I think of you Every Second I think of you I live for you and I die for you It's not for days, It's not for weeks, It's not for months or years, It's for ever.
Love is what I see in, your smile every day. Love is what I feel in, every touch you give. Love is what I hear in, every word you say. Love is what we share, every day we live.
Seasons will Change, Colours will Fade, But....One thing that will Never Change... The way that I Feel about you.. And....One thing that will Never Fade that is My LOVE 4 you..... I LOVE U SO MUCH
To be honest with you, I do not have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that is aching to see you smile again.
The way you look into my eyes, It scares me The way you say "I love you", It scares me The way you know just what to say, It scares me The ways you scare me, I love it
I have seen angels in the sky, I have seen snowfall in july, I have seen things you only imagine to see, But I have not seen anything sweeter than you.
your love is like a river peaceful and deep, your soul is like a secret that I never could keep, When I look into your eyes I know its true, you were made for me and I for you
Here is my heart, it is yours so take it, Treat it gently, please do not break it. Its full of love thats good and true, So please keep it always close to u.
I Promised you once, I promise you twice, this love will never end that i feel so deep inside, I loved you yesterday and even more today and i never want this feeling to go away, Baby you are my Everything, my Angel from above, you feel my life with so much love.
If you have a boy friend or a girl friend and you have a mobile, don't wait, just write these lovely romantic sms messages on your mobile phone and send to your loved ones. If he or she really loves you, you will get a reply with more romantic sms message. Exchange these love sms on this Valentines day.
You may see more Love sms Valentines sms messages on our website.
About the Author
Read Love sms, Funny sms, Friendship sms messages on our website. Armughan Riaz maintaining and working on following site. http://www.lovesmsfun.com
Candies, flowers and gifts are exchanged between loved ones on every Valentines day. Why do we celebrate this Valentine's day, it is still a mystery. But it is always in our mind that February is a month of Romance. How to celebrate this lovely day and with whom, is always a question of every young boy or a girl. When we did not had mobiles, we used to send love messages to our loved ones via Love Cards, Greeting cards, Emails etc. But now things change, we prefer to show our emotions by sending sms messages. In every country, on valentines day, there is exchange of millions of love sms messages on this romance day. I have collected some beautiful cute love and romantic sms messages here. You may just copy and send these cool Valentine's sms messages to your beloved ones on this romance day.
Without Love -- dayz are Sad day moan day tears day waste day thirst day fright day shatter day... so be in Love everyday...Wish u a Happy Valentine's Day
Days may end, night may fall, but i will be there for you till we won't see each other at all. sun may rise, moon may fall, but i think my life would never be this nice if i never knew you at all.
All i ever wanted was some1 to care for me. all i ever wanted was someone who would be there for me.all i ever wanted was someone who would be true.all i ever wanted was someone like you
Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.
Every Hour I think of you Every Minute I think of you Every Second I think of you I live for you and I die for you It's not for days, It's not for weeks, It's not for months or years, It's for ever.
Love is what I see in, your smile every day. Love is what I feel in, every touch you give. Love is what I hear in, every word you say. Love is what we share, every day we live.
Seasons will Change, Colours will Fade, But....One thing that will Never Change... The way that I Feel about you.. And....One thing that will Never Fade that is My LOVE 4 you..... I LOVE U SO MUCH
To be honest with you, I do not have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that is aching to see you smile again.
The way you look into my eyes, It scares me The way you say "I love you", It scares me The way you know just what to say, It scares me The ways you scare me, I love it
I have seen angels in the sky, I have seen snowfall in july, I have seen things you only imagine to see, But I have not seen anything sweeter than you.
your love is like a river peaceful and deep, your soul is like a secret that I never could keep, When I look into your eyes I know its true, you were made for me and I for you
Here is my heart, it is yours so take it, Treat it gently, please do not break it. Its full of love thats good and true, So please keep it always close to u.
I Promised you once, I promise you twice, this love will never end that i feel so deep inside, I loved you yesterday and even more today and i never want this feeling to go away, Baby you are my Everything, my Angel from above, you feel my life with so much love.
If you have a boy friend or a girl friend and you have a mobile, don't wait, just write these lovely romantic sms messages on your mobile phone and send to your loved ones. If he or she really loves you, you will get a reply with more romantic sms message. Exchange these love sms on this Valentines day.
You may see more Love sms Valentines sms messages on our website.
About the Author
Read Love sms, Funny sms, Friendship sms messages on our website. Armughan Riaz maintaining and working on following site. http://www.lovesmsfun.com
Lovely Greeting SMS Messages
by shriya karthikeyan
These are some general SMS messages which can be used for all occasion suitable for bulk SMS messaging, Romantic Text Messaging
1. Flowers are so beautiful as you. Why? Because a butterfly can go after it. Fruit are as sweet as you. Why? Because birds can go after it. Fruit are as sweet as you. Why? Because birds can go after it. So why shouldn't I? Let me be your valentine!
2. Your face, your body, your style, your beauty, your nature, your soul.....I think these are most powerful magnets on this earth that have attracted cold iron like me!
3. Curls of your silky hair and curves of your dressing pair, simply irrestible!
4. When I think about valentine I always think about US I' m glad that you' re mine I'm yours and I thank god that we found and loved each other.
5. Love me without fear trust me without questioning need me without demanding accept me without change wishing you a Happy valentine' Day!
6. Every memory I have for you I treasure every thought of you is wonderful thank you for being my valentine Thank you, love of my life.
7. I love you today As I have from the start, and I'll love you forever with all of my heart. Happy valentine's Day!
8.If you truly love someone, telling her how much and showing her how much should be the easiest think in the world. So, let me ask easily, would you be my valentine?
9. You are like a cycle ...You make my journey of life smooth ride-moving forward together taking the rough with the smooth, you help me keep my balance and gave me new confidence . Happy valentine's day
10. Usually I send SMS to people who r ... Either very cute very sweat or very special But u are an exception because U are al three so.... In this year superfine... Be my darling valentine!
11.Petals by petals and leaf by leaf that's how a tiny bud becomes a beautiful rose. Word by word and kiss by kiss that's the way true love grows... And joy ur valentine's day.
12.Everyone comes into the world with a piece of the heart broken. Believe in love, till you find the other piece of your heart . God has made a heart that will someday be yours. Will I get my piece on this valentine?
13.If you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world. Make me most powerful person in the world. Please be my darling valentine!
14.Another day, Another year, Another smile, Another tear, Another summer, A winter too... There will be no one like U! Never another! Be my valentine, dear...
15.Another valentine's Day has come once again. And miss seeing you, my dear and closest friend. You are there and here I miss you drying tears that I cry. Will you be my valentine?
About the Author
Author Bio:
ECS Technologies text chat operator offers bulk SMS messaging, text chat, adult chat, SMS marketing, Text Messaging, MMS Messaging, SMS Advertising, and many more other services.
These are some general SMS messages which can be used for all occasion suitable for bulk SMS messaging, Romantic Text Messaging
1. Flowers are so beautiful as you. Why? Because a butterfly can go after it. Fruit are as sweet as you. Why? Because birds can go after it. Fruit are as sweet as you. Why? Because birds can go after it. So why shouldn't I? Let me be your valentine!
2. Your face, your body, your style, your beauty, your nature, your soul.....I think these are most powerful magnets on this earth that have attracted cold iron like me!
3. Curls of your silky hair and curves of your dressing pair, simply irrestible!
4. When I think about valentine I always think about US I' m glad that you' re mine I'm yours and I thank god that we found and loved each other.
5. Love me without fear trust me without questioning need me without demanding accept me without change wishing you a Happy valentine' Day!
6. Every memory I have for you I treasure every thought of you is wonderful thank you for being my valentine Thank you, love of my life.
7. I love you today As I have from the start, and I'll love you forever with all of my heart. Happy valentine's Day!
8.If you truly love someone, telling her how much and showing her how much should be the easiest think in the world. So, let me ask easily, would you be my valentine?
9. You are like a cycle ...You make my journey of life smooth ride-moving forward together taking the rough with the smooth, you help me keep my balance and gave me new confidence . Happy valentine's day
10. Usually I send SMS to people who r ... Either very cute very sweat or very special But u are an exception because U are al three so.... In this year superfine... Be my darling valentine!
11.Petals by petals and leaf by leaf that's how a tiny bud becomes a beautiful rose. Word by word and kiss by kiss that's the way true love grows... And joy ur valentine's day.
12.Everyone comes into the world with a piece of the heart broken. Believe in love, till you find the other piece of your heart . God has made a heart that will someday be yours. Will I get my piece on this valentine?
13.If you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world. Make me most powerful person in the world. Please be my darling valentine!
14.Another day, Another year, Another smile, Another tear, Another summer, A winter too... There will be no one like U! Never another! Be my valentine, dear...
15.Another valentine's Day has come once again. And miss seeing you, my dear and closest friend. You are there and here I miss you drying tears that I cry. Will you be my valentine?
About the Author
Author Bio:
ECS Technologies text chat operator offers bulk SMS messaging, text chat, adult chat, SMS marketing, Text Messaging, MMS Messaging, SMS Advertising, and many more other services.
Valentine's Day SMS Messages
By Sherry Ringo
Valentine's Day is the day celebrated on 14th February every year around the globe to express the feelings and passion between the loved ones. Valentine's Day is celebrated by exchanging the gifts, flowers, greeting cards, chocolates, Valentine's Day cards and heart shaped balloons. Exchange of the red rose is specifically associated to lovers. The common misconception about the Valentine's Day is that it is for the lovers but instead Valentine's Day is the day to show your care and feelings for any relationship that is important. It can be your father, mother grandparents, siblings or any friend. With the arrival of mobile phones, people around the world send millions of text messages to greet their loved ones on the Valentine's Day. Here are some cool Valentine's Day sms messages which you can copy and send to your loved ones: · No poems no fancy words I just want the world to know that I LOVE YOU my Princess with all my heart. Happy Valentine's Day · Without Love -- days are sad day, moan day, tears day, waste day, thirst day, fright day, shatter day. So be in love everyday...Wish you a Happy Valentine's Day! · My soul is shattered without your arms to hold me. · Like a mirror without a reflection. I Love U my Valentine. · I'm enthralled by your beauty, mesmerized by your charisma and spellbound by your love. No wonder I am always thinking about you. I wish to celebrate every Valentine with you. Happy Valentine's Day! · Love so much my heart is sure. As time goes on I love you more, your happy smile. Your loving face no one will ever take your place. Wish you a Happy Valentine's Day! · I have seen angels in the sky, I have seen snowfall in july, I have seen things you only imagine to see, But I have not seen anything sweeter than you. · Your love is like a river peaceful and deep, Your soul is like a secret that I never could keep, When I look into your eyes I know it's true, You were made for me and me for you · Seasons will Change, Colors will Fade, But....One thing that will never Change... The way that I Feel about you.. And....One thing that will Never Fade that is My LOVE 4 you..... I LOVE U SO MUCH · Love is what I see in, your smile every day. Love is what I feel in, every touch you give. Love is what I hear in, every word you say. Love is what we share, every day we live. · Every Hour I think of you Every Minute I think of you Every Second I think of you I live for you and I die for you It's not for days; it's not for weeks, It's not for months or years, its forever. So if you have a true love in your life then sending sms is the best way to greet them on the Valentine's Day. So this valentine's day amaze your loved ones by sending them these lovely sms messages.
About the Author
Sherry Khan working on website Love sms, brithday sms text messages and providing free articles on different issues relating to mobile phones. For more information visit SMS Ringo free ringtone collection
Valentine's Day is the day celebrated on 14th February every year around the globe to express the feelings and passion between the loved ones. Valentine's Day is celebrated by exchanging the gifts, flowers, greeting cards, chocolates, Valentine's Day cards and heart shaped balloons. Exchange of the red rose is specifically associated to lovers. The common misconception about the Valentine's Day is that it is for the lovers but instead Valentine's Day is the day to show your care and feelings for any relationship that is important. It can be your father, mother grandparents, siblings or any friend. With the arrival of mobile phones, people around the world send millions of text messages to greet their loved ones on the Valentine's Day. Here are some cool Valentine's Day sms messages which you can copy and send to your loved ones: · No poems no fancy words I just want the world to know that I LOVE YOU my Princess with all my heart. Happy Valentine's Day · Without Love -- days are sad day, moan day, tears day, waste day, thirst day, fright day, shatter day. So be in love everyday...Wish you a Happy Valentine's Day! · My soul is shattered without your arms to hold me. · Like a mirror without a reflection. I Love U my Valentine. · I'm enthralled by your beauty, mesmerized by your charisma and spellbound by your love. No wonder I am always thinking about you. I wish to celebrate every Valentine with you. Happy Valentine's Day! · Love so much my heart is sure. As time goes on I love you more, your happy smile. Your loving face no one will ever take your place. Wish you a Happy Valentine's Day! · I have seen angels in the sky, I have seen snowfall in july, I have seen things you only imagine to see, But I have not seen anything sweeter than you. · Your love is like a river peaceful and deep, Your soul is like a secret that I never could keep, When I look into your eyes I know it's true, You were made for me and me for you · Seasons will Change, Colors will Fade, But....One thing that will never Change... The way that I Feel about you.. And....One thing that will Never Fade that is My LOVE 4 you..... I LOVE U SO MUCH · Love is what I see in, your smile every day. Love is what I feel in, every touch you give. Love is what I hear in, every word you say. Love is what we share, every day we live. · Every Hour I think of you Every Minute I think of you Every Second I think of you I live for you and I die for you It's not for days; it's not for weeks, It's not for months or years, its forever. So if you have a true love in your life then sending sms is the best way to greet them on the Valentine's Day. So this valentine's day amaze your loved ones by sending them these lovely sms messages.
About the Author
Sherry Khan working on website Love sms, brithday sms text messages and providing free articles on different issues relating to mobile phones. For more information visit SMS Ringo free ringtone collection
Friday, January 25, 2008
OSAMA'S VALENTINE
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| Little David comes home from first grade and tells his father that they learned about the history of Valentine's Day. "Since Valentine's Day is for a Christian saint and we're Jewish," he asks, "will God get mad at me for giving someone a valentine?" David's father thinks a bit, then says "No, I don't think God would get mad. Who do you want to give a valentine to?" "Osama Bin Laden," David says. "Why Osama Bin Laden," his father asks in shock. "Well," David says, "I thought that if a little American Jewish boy could have enough love to give Osama a valentine, he might start to think that maybe we're not all bad, and maybe start loving people a little bit. And if other kids saw what I did and sent valentines to Osama, he'd love everyone a lot. And then he'd start going all over the place to tell everyone how much he loved them and how he didn't hate anyone anymore." His father's heart swells and he looks at his boy with newfound pride. "David, that's the most wonderful thing I've ever heard." "I know," David says, "and once that gets him out in the open, the Marines shoot him." Source : http://www.funmunch.com/events/valentine/valentine_day_jokes.shtml |
Valentine's Day by Jenny Chane
Valentine's Day celebrates all the vibrant love stories that have existed in the history since the time we can't even imagine. And the most illustrious story has been that of Saint Valentine, who set a pioneering example of sweeping the world off its feet. He was the one, who did the priestly service of letting all lovers assert their love without being scared by the wiles of the world. Emperor Claudius of Rome was one of those rulers who adopted every adroit move to abolish love only to satisfy his selfish aims. But Saint Valentine stood like a wall in the midst of all his cunning strategies. He acted as a resolute supporter of love marriages and did not falter even in the thick of ruthless law introduced by King Claudius, which had been trying its best to banish love completely. Because of his heroic attitude, everyone pays obeisance to him on the Valentine's Day of every year.
The love-driven spirit of this special lovers' day gets livelier with all the associations this day has with the inspiring Saint Valentine. The way he stated the depth of his love by the famous words, " From your Valentine" and the way he got martyred and motivated the love spirit of a series of lovers of the proceeding generations is something that stays indelibly stamped on every feature of Valentine's Day. Another reason for considering this day truly auspicious for lovers is its relation with goddess Juno. Being the deity of fertility, she promises to gift all the sincere lovers, a flourishing relationship and lifetime of love. Therefore, we can say that there is no scarcity of valid reasons to celebrate this day with uncommon zest and to allow cupid to make everything all the more magical in the love groove of 14th February.
And as soon as we allow the magic of love, it takes no time to get enamored by a host of Valentine cards. Truly, all the love-filled feelings become all the more apparent when they showcase themselves in the form of chromatic cards peppered with the hearty love messages. When teddy bears snuggle into each other or when ardent lovers gaze into each other's eyes or when two hearts come closer in the scenario of Valentine cards, the feeling of love takes no time in getting into its full expression mode. And all such cards along with expressions make all of us in full swing of the Valentine fever.
Author's Bio: Jenny Chane is an associated editor of http://www.mydearvalentine.com/. Grab the latest ideas and views by flipping through the pages of mydearvalentine. Your feedback is highly appreciated at jennychane@gmail.com
About the Author
Jenny Chane is an associated editor of http://www.mydearvalentine.com/. Grab the latest ideas and views by flipping through the pages of mydearvalentine. Your feedback is highly appreciated at jennychane@gmail.com
Source : http://www.goarticles.com/cgi-bin/showa.cgi?C=745225
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Where exactly did Valentine's Day originate? Its roots would actually take us back to old times of the Roman period when King Claudius was the ruler. The day has been held as kind of like a festival to honor and celebrate the queen of the Roman gods.
About the Author She was then recognized as the sole goddess of matrimony and the female sex. On the following day, the Lupercalia Feasts were celebrated. As the eve of this festival took place, the only people who were allowed to be together were the youth, as they were kept separated the rest of the time. Basically, this was one of the theories of the origins of Valentine's Day.
Also a theory of the history of Valentine's Day, the story of the sacrifices that were made by Valentine, a Christian martyr, was truly touching. It was said that back then, the Roman emperor required a large number of soldiers to form a huge army. However, he was unable to do so because there were a lot of people who did not want to be away from their families to go to war. This became a big problem for the emperor so he ordered people to stop getting married. Of course, not all the people wanted to follow, especially those who really wanted to get married. So Valentine, who was a priest back then, conducted secret marriages. This became the foundation of St. Valentine's Day that is now celebrated everywhere.
Regardless where Valentine's Day originated from, it is truly a day when we can celebrate the love we have and share with our loved ones. We should all see it as a great opportunity to give gifts and presents that would express our love and appreciation to those who are dear to our hearts.
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Be My Valentine
A guy walks into a post office one day to see a middle-aged, balding man standing at the counter methodically placing "Love" stamps on bright pink envelopes with hearts all over them. He then takes out a perfume bottle and starts spraying scent all over them.
His curiosity getting the better of him, he goes up to the balding man and asks him what he is doing. The man says, "I'm sending out 1,000 Valentine cards signed, 'Guess who?'"
"But why?" asks the man.
"I'm a divorce lawyer," the man replies.
Things not to say on your Valentine's date...
1. I really don't like this restaurant that much, but I wanted to use this 2-for-1 coupon before it expired.
2. People say I remind them of Eddie Haskell.
3. I used to come here all the time with my ex.
4. I never said you NEED a nose job. I just said it wouldn't hurt to consider it.
5. Could you excuse me? My cat gets lonely if he doesn't hear my voice on the answering machine every hour.
6. I like clay. It's mushy.
7. I really feel that I've grown in the past few years. Used to be I wouldn't have given someone like you a second look.
8. And I won that trophy in the inter-fraternity belching contest.
9. I know you said you don't eat anything with a face. But a good butcher will cut that part off for you if you ask.
10. It's been tough, but I've come to accept that most people I date just won't be as smart as I am.Source : http://www.basicjokes.com/djoke.php?id=1116
Did You Know…? A Little Story About Valentine’s Day
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Did You Know That…
…Valentine’s Day is the second largest card sending holiday of the year, second only to Christmas?
…Women purchase about 85% of Valentine’s?
…Valentine’s Day is also celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, Italy, France, and Australia?
…In February 2004, $2.4 billion worth of jewelry was purchased?
While some things can be known about the origins of Valentine’s Day, one thing we don’t know for sure is just where or when we began celebrating amore, although there have been many stories told over the years. I’ve been reading a few of the legends and myths and I want to share them with you. I have my favorite. Now you pick yours.
The Stories About Saint Valentine
One story alleges that Valentine was a priest living in the 3rd century in Rome. His story is deeply enmeshed with that of the Emperor Claudius II (aka: Claudius the Cruel), who ruled Rome at this time. Claudius was involved in many wars around Rome, but he could not convince many men to leave their wives and families. His solution was to outlaw marriage and cancel all engagements. The men would then be able to focus on waging war. Valentine, believing this law to be unjust, began marrying couples in secret. When Claudius discovered what Valentine was doing, it is said that he had him executed.
Another story has Claudius killing Valentine for helping Christians escape the Roman prisons, where they were regularly beaten and tortured.
Yet a third story claims that Valentine was put to death for curing the jailor’s daughter of her blindness. She frequently visited Valentine while he was jailed. They were said to have fallen in love. In fact, Valentine may have originated the tradition of sending written avowals of love and romance. Prior to being put to death, Valentine allegedly wrote a letter to her, signing it “From your Valentine”, an expression we continue to use today. It is believed that he was executed on February 14, 269 A.D. Thus, Saint Valentine became both a romantic and a hero.
The Feast of Lupercalia
The Feast of Lupercalia may have been the first legend told surrounding the beginnings of Valentine’s Day. Lupercalia, a fertility festival celebrated on February 15, was a celebration to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture. Lupercalia was also a dedication to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus. Lupercus was said to watch over the shepherd’s flocks, keeping then safe from wolves. The Roman priests would sacrifice both a goat and a dog to begin the festival. The goat represented fertility, while the dog symbolized purification.
The goat’s hide was then sliced into strips and dipped into the sacrificial blood. The men went out into the streets, gently slapping the women with the goathide strips. The women welcomed this gesture as they believed it would make them more fertile in the year ahead. Later in the day, all the single women’s names were placed in an urn. The bachelor men would pull a name from the urn. The couple would spend much time together over the next year and many of these pairings resulted in marriage.
The Feast of Lupercalia continued for centuries. As Christianity began to take hold though, the priests strived to replace the heathen practices by substituting the names of saints for the girls names. Those drawing from the urn would then aspire to imitate the lives of the saint whose name they had drawn. While the priests wished to abolish the pagan traditions, they sought to keep the festival flavor of feasts and sports. Thus, Lupercalia became Valentine’s Day.
Traditions Over the Ages
The origins of our modern valentines most likely date back to the early 1400’s. While he was a prisoner in the Tower of London, the French Duke of Orleans wrote many, many poems and valentines to his wife. Some of these remain and are on display at the British Museum in London. Flowers became popular gifts about 200 years later in France.
Americans began the tradition of exchanging hand-made valentine’s in the early 1700’s.
Presently, every February, all across America, we celebrate our love and our loved ones on Valentine’s Day with gifts, flowers, candy, and Valentine’s greeting cards. Saint Valentine became the patron saint of lovers and we continue to celebrate the spirit of love and sentiment and good feelings.
About The Author
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Wolves, Goats, Martyrs and War: a History of Valentine's Day
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Valentines Day is one of the most enigmatic of holidays, having appeared in many forms. But all “Valentine’s Days” have drawn suspicion. In fact, after hundreds of years of attempted reform, Christian observance came to an end when the Catholic Church purged St. Valentine’s Day from its calendar in 1969.
Still, the holiday continues to inspire an annual avalanche of cards, not to mention the mass consumption of chocolates, flowers and sometimes, pricier presents. What do we commemorate when we celebrate Valentine’s Day?
- Running with the Wolves
If you’ve ever researched the history of Valentines Day, you know it began with wolves and ancient Spring magic. The earliest instance we know of starts with the tough old shepherds and founders of Rome who feared and respected the wolves that preyed on their flocks. Once a year, they held sacrifices to Lupercus, the god of shepherds, enemy of wolves, and friend of dogs. Other shepherds sacrificed to Faunus, who also protected shepherds but was part goat.
The celebration, called Lupercalia, was held during early spring, which since time immemorial has been a season for purification. All the ancients saw that in the winter, the earth fell quiet and covered itself in white. Late winter and early spring was the time for human purification also, to be followed closely by fertility magic.
- Something Old, Something New
Rome still celebrated Lupercalia after it had matured and become a great republic. In fact, all civic life came to a halt for the festival.
Because of the Remus and Romulus legend, Lupercalia enjoyed great respect. Sons of noblemen were appointed to be Lupercalian priests, or luperci, and tasked with a number of duties. Each year they sacrified a dog (for Lupercal) and a goat (for Faunus) at the bottom of a cave at Palantine Hill. Wearing nothing but goat hide, they cut thongs from the skin and ran the perimeter of “old Rome,” slapping women with the bloody strips. Women put themselves forward for this, meaning to be purified and made fertile. (Our month of February, Febrarius, means “month of purification.”) Afterward, Rome indulged in a love lottery in which young men drew young women’s names from a jar and became their “partners” for a time.
Eventually, the Roman upper-crust grew too refined to feel at ease with Lupercalia. Cicero sniffed that the luperci were:
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A certain wild association of Lupercalian brothers, both plainly pastoral and savage, whose rustic alliance was formed before civilization and laws.
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A certain politician made sport of Lupercalia's anachronistic air by wearing his luperci skin to work and haranging his fellow senators.
Eventually, Lupercalia began to fall out of favor, although Augustus revived it for a time in a fit of national patriotism.
- The Church Triumphant
The church is sometimes vilified for its Lupercalian edits. It found the love lottery unacceptable, as well as the luperci. But rather than ban the fete outright, it tried assimilation.
First, the love lottery was replaced with a high-minded version, where each man drew a saint instead of a girl and was invited to emulate that saint throughout the year. (This custom is sometimes observed today). Then the purification aspect was re-clothed in a feast of the Purification of the Virgin Mary, scheduled for early February. As for fertility magic, the church dodged this altogether, although one can see traces of the purifying and “greening” impulse in the spirit and chapel decorations of Lent.
As for the fourteenth of February, the church dedicated the day to the Christian martyr, Valentine. Contrary to the sugared rumors that have sprung up around him (or more accurately, them -- there were several St. Valentines), the saint almost certainly had nothing to do with love or romance.
- Knights in Shining Armor
Lupercalia had been well and truly squelched in Rome. But to the west and north, where the Age of Chivalry triumphed, Europeans could not let the tradition molder and with childlike zest, revived it. The English cast off the papal practice of drawing saints, but their new notions of chivalric love led to a more innocent type of boy/girl lottery than Rome had ever seen. Young girls drew on the power of dream pillows -- filled or pinned with aromatics like bay leaves or lavender -- to catch a glimpse of their future mates. Small children dressed in adult clothes and roamed the streets, gently mocking the “new” fascination with love:
"Good morning to you, valentine
Curl your locks as I do mine--
Two before and three behind.
Good morning to you, valentine."
Unlike the serious Lupercalian business of patriotism and the appeasement of gods, this kinder, gentler Valentine’s day spoke of a young person’s coming-of-age. Chivalry’s themes of chaste love and longing played major roles.
Hail, Bishop Valentine! Whose day this is
All the air is thy diocese,
And all the chirping choristers
And other birds are thy parishioners … wrote Donne.
The world grows old over and over again, and in England, Valentine’s Day aged with it. The tradition of laying out for gifts took hold, with the height of luxurious gifting possibly reaching its height around Restoration England. Lords gave Ladies rings and brooches of staggering worth, and even Samuel Pepys (not a famous romantic) recorded having given his wife “a Turkey-stone set with diamonds.” She was grateful, and as he noted, “I am glad of it, for it is fit the wretch should have something to content herself with.”
- Initially Resistant
Pragmatic, puritanical America long withstood Europe’s festivities, fending off fairies, maypoles, effigy-burning and even Valentine’s Day. Women were scarce in the harsh days of the nation’s dawn, and public displays of affection were outlawed in any case. It wasn’t until the Civil War that the country relented: long, lonely rifts in families endeared the saint to them at last. Prior to the war, elaborate commercial valentines (including “mechanical” types) had begun to flood the market and grow more affordable.
Of course, this uncharacteristic flood of romance could not go unchecked, and the widespread embrace of valentines was closely followed by the “vinegar” valentine, a comic and sometimes, caustic type.
When the war ended, and Americans crept into the light of Reconstruction, they found a freshly industrialized nation. Along with it came a transcontinental railroad, typewriters, an internal combustion engine, and -- most importantly for Valentine’s Day -- heart-shaped boxes full of commercial chocolates (a gimmick invented by the Cadbury brothers during the 1860s). Although fine diamonds and jewelry never quite became the norm among Americans, the standard “recipe” of cards, flowers, and a heart-shaped box of chocolates had been carved in the national psyche. Now Valentine’s Day is only second to Christmas in number of cards bought and sent.
About The Author
Blake Kritzberg is a copywriter, web designer, and proprietor of http://www.e-free-greeting-card.com. This article may be freely reprinted so long as this resource box and URL are preserved. Visit the website for listings and reviews of funny, spiritual and edgy e-cards.
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7 Innovative Ways to Save Your Marriage
by: Are you in a tough spot in your marriage right now? Every relationship has its problems and its rough patches, but that doesn’t mean that you need to give up when the going gets tough. For many couples, they can actually work through their problems to create a stronger relationship. Sometimes the hard times are actually learning lessons in disguise. Here are just a few tips for getting started on the right foot.
Listen
There’s nothing more damaging to a relationship than a partner that doesn’t take the time to listen. In fact, that fact alone might be the thing that has led to the feelings of dissatisfaction with a marriage. In order to be a good partner (on either end), you need to be able to remain quiet and talk through problems until both partners are satisfied. Be quiet when they are speaking and try to really listen to what they are saying.
Understand
But listening only goes so far when you’re trying to work out problems in you relationship. If you do not really understand where they are coming from, you might be creating more problems. When they are expressing themselves, you want to ask questions when appropriate in order to clarify what they are saying to you. Even if it seems uncomfortable at first, it’s important that you make sure that you understand where they are at and how you might be able to help.
A positive attitude
Why start off a rough patch by thinking that it will never get any better no matter what you do? When you’re trying to work through problems and issues, you will want to make sure that you’re going into it with a positive attitude. You don’t need to be sugary sweet, but you should start to look at your troubles as learning lessons rather than the doom of the relationship. Try to think about happier times when you start to become negative in order to turn your thinking around.
Be present
When a partner isn’t fully in the moment of trying to fix a relationship, the work becomes a one-sided affair. You need to be able to fully be there for your partner when you need to work through tough times. This might mean that you need to take a few days off work or devote certain times to discussing ways to fix your relationship. These times should be uninterrupted by work obligations or time commitments so that neither person feels rushed or distracted.
Stay calm
While you might be upset about the way that things have turned out, you need to remember that being calm is the best way to see things more clearly. Try lowering your voice when you talk – it automatically lowers your blood pressure and your anger. Try to take a few deep breaths before you say anything – this will help you to be clear and calm as you speak. Many people perceive becoming flustered or upset as being angry, and that can lead to a poor environment for working through issues.
Make plans
One of the best ways to help save your marriage is to start creating long term plans with your partner. While this might not seem like the best idea at the time, it will create the idea that you are both going to make it through the rough patch that you have stumbled upon – somehow. Try to make plans for vacations or other far in the future appointments. This will create a little less pressure because the future isn’t so vague and unable to be seen in the dark that you are experiencing at the time.
Take time away
While you don’t have to become legally separated to do this, taking time away from each other is one of the best ways to stop a marriage from becoming a divorced marriage. When you take time away from each other, you allow yourself to have a new perspective on the events that are happening. And this can allow you to see new solutions as well as new ideas for how to handle the problems that you may be having. Even if it’s just a night or a few hours, taking time to step back from an issue can help it become easier to resolve.
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Listen
There’s nothing more damaging to a relationship than a partner that doesn’t take the time to listen. In fact, that fact alone might be the thing that has led to the feelings of dissatisfaction with a marriage. In order to be a good partner (on either end), you need to be able to remain quiet and talk through problems until both partners are satisfied. Be quiet when they are speaking and try to really listen to what they are saying.
Understand
But listening only goes so far when you’re trying to work out problems in you relationship. If you do not really understand where they are coming from, you might be creating more problems. When they are expressing themselves, you want to ask questions when appropriate in order to clarify what they are saying to you. Even if it seems uncomfortable at first, it’s important that you make sure that you understand where they are at and how you might be able to help.
A positive attitude
Why start off a rough patch by thinking that it will never get any better no matter what you do? When you’re trying to work through problems and issues, you will want to make sure that you’re going into it with a positive attitude. You don’t need to be sugary sweet, but you should start to look at your troubles as learning lessons rather than the doom of the relationship. Try to think about happier times when you start to become negative in order to turn your thinking around.
Be present
When a partner isn’t fully in the moment of trying to fix a relationship, the work becomes a one-sided affair. You need to be able to fully be there for your partner when you need to work through tough times. This might mean that you need to take a few days off work or devote certain times to discussing ways to fix your relationship. These times should be uninterrupted by work obligations or time commitments so that neither person feels rushed or distracted.
Stay calm
While you might be upset about the way that things have turned out, you need to remember that being calm is the best way to see things more clearly. Try lowering your voice when you talk – it automatically lowers your blood pressure and your anger. Try to take a few deep breaths before you say anything – this will help you to be clear and calm as you speak. Many people perceive becoming flustered or upset as being angry, and that can lead to a poor environment for working through issues.
Make plans
One of the best ways to help save your marriage is to start creating long term plans with your partner. While this might not seem like the best idea at the time, it will create the idea that you are both going to make it through the rough patch that you have stumbled upon – somehow. Try to make plans for vacations or other far in the future appointments. This will create a little less pressure because the future isn’t so vague and unable to be seen in the dark that you are experiencing at the time.
Take time away
While you don’t have to become legally separated to do this, taking time away from each other is one of the best ways to stop a marriage from becoming a divorced marriage. When you take time away from each other, you allow yourself to have a new perspective on the events that are happening. And this can allow you to see new solutions as well as new ideas for how to handle the problems that you may be having. Even if it’s just a night or a few hours, taking time to step back from an issue can help it become easier to resolve.
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The Path to Forever: Intimacy and a Lasting Marriage
By For a marriage to survive and last until that dreamy "forever," intimacy must exist between the couple. What is intimacy anyway? This just does not pertain to the act of making love, but fulfilling each other's emotional needs. It entails enlightening conversations in between kisses and caresses.
A lot of marriage counselors chalk up the longevity of a marriage to how intimate the couple is. Here are some ways to achieve that intimacy for that ideal, almost magical marriage:
1. All work and no intimacy make a dull couple.
It is a given that after a crazy day at the office, the husband and wife both feel exhausted. But they must not let it get in the way of their relationship. They must allow for some quality time in and out of their love bed.
2. The husband must give what his wife wants: quality talk time.
Wives want to talk things out and express what is inside their hearts. The husband must grant her that as this is one way to achieve emotional intimacy.
3. The couple must still exert an effort to look attractive.
It does not mean that both must be “dressed up” all the time. But married couples must still try their best to look nice for their partners. This is one of the ways to start up the intimacy.
4. The couple must schedule dates.
Dating must not end at marriage. In fact, both should set a time to go out and have fun, just like before.
5. Husband and wife must continually unleash their romantic side.
Kisses, hugs, flowers, holding hands, stolen smacks...’the works’ - they do magic in a relationship.
6. Surprises are nice.
Sweet surprises always lead to intimacy. If the couple knows when to pull off these incredibly romantic stints, then that's a surefire way to attain a divorce-proof relationship.
7. Solving a problem before it gets blown out of proportion is important.
Intimacy loses its appeal once it gets "infected" by those conflicts that cripple the relationship. Conflicts should let a couple grow and not cause the downfall.
It is nice to earn that happily-ever-after plateau. But marriage is not as easy as a Disney fairytale had told everyone. Intimacy must be maintained long after the honeymoon is over to guarantee the husband and wife that yes, this marriage would last. That yes, forever is possible.
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A lot of marriage counselors chalk up the longevity of a marriage to how intimate the couple is. Here are some ways to achieve that intimacy for that ideal, almost magical marriage:
1. All work and no intimacy make a dull couple.
It is a given that after a crazy day at the office, the husband and wife both feel exhausted. But they must not let it get in the way of their relationship. They must allow for some quality time in and out of their love bed.
2. The husband must give what his wife wants: quality talk time.
Wives want to talk things out and express what is inside their hearts. The husband must grant her that as this is one way to achieve emotional intimacy.
3. The couple must still exert an effort to look attractive.
It does not mean that both must be “dressed up” all the time. But married couples must still try their best to look nice for their partners. This is one of the ways to start up the intimacy.
4. The couple must schedule dates.
Dating must not end at marriage. In fact, both should set a time to go out and have fun, just like before.
5. Husband and wife must continually unleash their romantic side.
Kisses, hugs, flowers, holding hands, stolen smacks...’the works’ - they do magic in a relationship.
6. Surprises are nice.
Sweet surprises always lead to intimacy. If the couple knows when to pull off these incredibly romantic stints, then that's a surefire way to attain a divorce-proof relationship.
7. Solving a problem before it gets blown out of proportion is important.
Intimacy loses its appeal once it gets "infected" by those conflicts that cripple the relationship. Conflicts should let a couple grow and not cause the downfall.
It is nice to earn that happily-ever-after plateau. But marriage is not as easy as a Disney fairytale had told everyone. Intimacy must be maintained long after the honeymoon is over to guarantee the husband and wife that yes, this marriage would last. That yes, forever is possible.
About The Author
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Pursuit Of Happiness In A Marriage
By John Khu
Happiness is a precious gift. The pursuit of happiness should direct one to look within oneself and to the love that surrounds us. Happiness means well-being, sound health, and calm mind. Man is a social being and in spite of the nuclear society we live in today, all our relationships make us what we are. And one of the most important of them all is the institution of marriage. Marriage means commitment, love and understanding. More often than not the pursuit happiness ends in marriage.
Marriage is a firm bonding based on love, passion and sexual desire. Each equally important in its own sphere as we know that life should have a complete balance of love and commitment. Marriage is an ultimate commitment of life to peruse the natural way to attain happiness.
Pursuit of happiness through a marriage however is an individualistic view. While even half a century earlier marriage was the ultimate goal, the contemporary world has seen a drastic change in the way relationships are viewed. While marriage is still a revered institution it is no longer a respectability and recognition mandate, especially for women. Both genders today are equally ambitious and successful which makes the pursuit for happiness all the more definitive.
A happy and successful marriage today entails partners who deserve each other. They are a perfect match intellectually, physically and emotionally. Pursuit of happiness in marriage also includes the achievement of material comforts that ease the way for two people to share a lifetime together.
Pursuit of happiness in a marriage depends on making the right choices. Since ancient times marriage has been a source to attain real happiness and fulfillment in life. Marriage brings a sense of completeness in both men and women. This philosophy is reflected in all religions and isms that teach us to look deeper within ourselves. Marriage is the most natural institution formed by man. Evolution has made humans realize their gender differences and compatibility. Marriage has given them a formal bonding and an atmosphere to raise their children.
The pursuit of happiness through marriage is therefore a phenomenon that has come down through generations. It is a time-tested and proven theory which holds true even today because it is result of not human actions but human belief. It is an intrinsic aspect of human practicality. That is why, while many customs have come and gone with civilizations, marriage has lasted over centuries. Man’s pursuit of happiness is incomplete without the sanctity and bliss of a wedded life.
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Happiness is a precious gift. The pursuit of happiness should direct one to look within oneself and to the love that surrounds us. Happiness means well-being, sound health, and calm mind. Man is a social being and in spite of the nuclear society we live in today, all our relationships make us what we are. And one of the most important of them all is the institution of marriage. Marriage means commitment, love and understanding. More often than not the pursuit happiness ends in marriage.
Marriage is a firm bonding based on love, passion and sexual desire. Each equally important in its own sphere as we know that life should have a complete balance of love and commitment. Marriage is an ultimate commitment of life to peruse the natural way to attain happiness.
Pursuit of happiness through a marriage however is an individualistic view. While even half a century earlier marriage was the ultimate goal, the contemporary world has seen a drastic change in the way relationships are viewed. While marriage is still a revered institution it is no longer a respectability and recognition mandate, especially for women. Both genders today are equally ambitious and successful which makes the pursuit for happiness all the more definitive.
A happy and successful marriage today entails partners who deserve each other. They are a perfect match intellectually, physically and emotionally. Pursuit of happiness in marriage also includes the achievement of material comforts that ease the way for two people to share a lifetime together.
Pursuit of happiness in a marriage depends on making the right choices. Since ancient times marriage has been a source to attain real happiness and fulfillment in life. Marriage brings a sense of completeness in both men and women. This philosophy is reflected in all religions and isms that teach us to look deeper within ourselves. Marriage is the most natural institution formed by man. Evolution has made humans realize their gender differences and compatibility. Marriage has given them a formal bonding and an atmosphere to raise their children.
The pursuit of happiness through marriage is therefore a phenomenon that has come down through generations. It is a time-tested and proven theory which holds true even today because it is result of not human actions but human belief. It is an intrinsic aspect of human practicality. That is why, while many customs have come and gone with civilizations, marriage has lasted over centuries. Man’s pursuit of happiness is incomplete without the sanctity and bliss of a wedded life.
About The Author
John Khu is an experience entrepreneur and internet marketer. He specializes in communication development and personal happiness.http://www.happyessence.com
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A Major Cause Of Relationship Problems
By Margaret Paul, Ph.D
We all know that relationships are very challenging. 52% of married people reach their 15th anniversary and only 33% reach their 25th anniversary.
I have been counseling individuals and couples for 40 years and I believe that I have discovered a major cause of relationship problems - if not THE major cause.
Simply put, each person makes the other person responsible for his or her feelings and then tries, in various ways, to have control over getting the other person to behave in the ways she or she wants.
When most people get into a relationship, they tend to believe that this person whom they love will finally make them feel safe, secure, adequate and lovable. Because most people do not know how to make themselves feel safe, secure, adequate and lovable, and because many people came from families that did not provide this, they each believe that it needs to be provided by the other person.
The other person might try very hard to provide this. Imagine that you have a partner who is very kind and caring. But imagine that you are very critical of yourself. While your partner's caring feels good, as long as you are judging yourself, you will feel bad. No matter how much your partner loves you, as long as you are being unloving to yourself, you will not feel safe, secure, adequate and lovable.
However, you might not realize that your feelings of insecurity, anxiety, or fear are coming from your own thoughts. You might think that you are not happy because your partner is just not loving you enough. As a result, you might try various actions to try have control over getting the love you want - such as getting angry, blaming, or giving yourself up. The act of trying to control your partner only adds to your own bad feelings.
Meanwhile, your partner is likely doing the same thing - trying to get you to make him or her feel safe, secure, adequate and lovable. But when you try to control your partner and your partner tries to control you, you both end up feeling worse. One or both of you might go into resistance, withdrawing to protect against being controlled. When one person withdraws to avoid being controlled, the other person might feel even more abandoned, trying even harder to have control over getting the love you want.
As long as you each make the other person responsible for your feelings, you will continue to create a relationship that doesn't work.
The way out of this - the way to break this codependent system - is for one person to start to take responsibility for his or her own feelings. It really just takes one person to break the unloving system that both have established. When you begin to notice the thoughts that create your fear, insecurity, and feelings of unworthiness and unlovability, then you can start to learn to heal the wounded part of you that is critical of you. As you do your own inner work and learn to love yourself, you stop being a victim. You stop blaming your partner. You stop trying to control your partner into making you feel loved.
While there is no guarantee that your partner will also make changes, there is a good possibility that when you learn how to make yourself happy and take the pressure off your partner to do this for you, he or she might be interested in doing this as well.
Whatever the outer problems are in your relationship - sexual issues, money issues, parenting issues, chores, time, and so on - the underlying issue not taking responsibility for your own feelings. When you decide to learn to do this, you may be thrilled with the results!
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Margaret Paul, Ph.D. best-selling author of eight books, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available.
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How to Catch a Cheating Wife
By Sean Morissy
The last thing a husband wants to do is accuse his wife of having an affair when in fact she is not. Therefore, if you suspect your wife is cheating, take great care to do things the right way so you do not end up with a damaged marriage. One of the most common signs of a woman having an affair is her spending more time at work, long lunch hours, extra meetings and so on.
You see - the majority of affairs begin at work. The affair could be with an employee, boss, consultant, or client. Therefore, you first want to take note of any special attention pertaining to the workplace. For instance, if you notice your wife is spending more time taking care of herself to look nice at work, leaving earlier than usual, going out every day for lunch, staying late, taking business trips, and so on, then you may have a reason to be suspicious.
Once you begin to notice signs of change, you would begin to take note and look for proof. For instance, if you see that your wife’s behavior is different from usual, you are probably asking yourself why. If she becomes more interested in spending hours at the computer conversing with "friends" or "playing games" rather than going to bed, the behavior would be different, therefore, suspicious.
Another sign that your wife may be having an affair is that she suddenly takes up a new sport, activity, or some kind of interest. While this could a good thing and have nothing to do with cheating at all, again you want to pay attention. Along with the behavioral change would cove her taking better care of personal hygiene, having manicures and pedicures, choosing a new hair color and/or style, shopping for trendy or sexy clothes, etc.
Then, if you find that your wife prefers taking calls on her cell phone or perhaps talks in a quiet voice when the home phone rings, question it. Keep in mind that if your wife was cheating and you approach her, the chances are she will deny everything. For this reason, you must put it all together. This means looking at the computer to determine what sites she is visiting, obtaining cell phone records, and even following her, if necessary.
While the thought of following your wife sounds mean or invasive, if you believe she is having an affair, then you owe it to yourself and your family to know the truth. Sometimes, confirming an affair is hard. In this case, you might need to hire a private investigator to do the work for you. However, if you have time or interest, you can always be your own private eye. Finally, you can even purchase miniature, hidden cameras to place around the house if you believe she is having the man in, buy software that can monitor her computer activity, and a wide array of other tools to help you know if your wife is in fact cheating.
About the Author
Sean Morissy runs the hugely popular site dating woman, which helps you how to catch a cheating Spouse, which is very common in today’s husband and wives. Are you worried about cheating Spouse? Here you can find best book related to it.
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Bringing Back The Spark - 5 Secrets To Getting Your Husband To Adore You
If you are like most married women, the romance in your marriage has its ups and downs as time goes by. As you move together through the many changes that life brings, it is easy to forget to put each other first. If you are ready to win back his attention, first you need to understand what makes him tick.
Here are 5 secrets to getting him to adore you again:
Tip #1: Acknowledge his special value: Every man has a unique attribute, a special type of intelligence, or an area of expertise. You can bet that this is the thing about which your husband feels most proud. Why? Because your husband places a healthy portion of his own self-esteem on this value, silly as that may seem. In fact, most of what he says to you is simply him reminding you in different ways about this special value. By really listening to what he is saying and acknowledging his value directly, you will be amazed at how much he will start opening up to listen to you in return.
Tip #2: Quit making him shut down: Every husband has at least one or two things that make him seem to shut down or close up emotionally. Instead of being dismayed or trying to pry at the root of those things, it is better to let them lie. Learn what his shut-down triggers are and then learn to avoid them. If you are truly concerned about some deep issue he is facing, let him know you are concerned and ask if he would like to talk about it. But, if he does not want to, respect that and move on. Life is too short to always be trying to fix your husband. Avoid his triggers and enjoy happier times together.
Tip #3: Heed his "alone time beacon": Often, when a wife wants more attention from her husband, she will do whatever she can to get it: strike up a conversation, sit near him, or even nag him about being too quiet! During these times, you can bet that your husband is trying to send subtle signals that say "stay away - I need some alone time right now." It is a huge mistake to ignore those signals. Quite to the contrary, the secret to getting him to want to be around you is to actually let him have his alone time. Even encourage it. When you are feeling the need to spend time with him, arrange for a special get-together time after dinner and "invite" him to join you. By setting aside the time in advance, he will likely be much more responsive.
Tip #4: Be crystal clear about your feelings: You know the routine: you are feeling hurt or angry for some reason and you want him to guess your feelings and, even better, approach you about them. For 95% of men, this is just not going to happen. You must give up on this fantasy of wanting him to figure you out. Instead: choose the right time and express to him in a crystal clear way about what is bothering you. Avoid complaining. Rather, your sentence should go like this: "Honey, I am feeling hurt because of [fill in cause]. Is this a good time to talk about it?"
Tip #5: Show confidence in your looks: No discussion of marital relations is complete without mention of the physical side of the relationship. Regardless of the state of your sex life with your husband, being attracted to each other is the basis for any healthy marriage. Here is the formula for success: be confident in your face, your hair, your body and show it. Even on bad hair days, walk, talk, and sit in a way that says, "I am hot. I am attractive. Now, you can take it or leave it." Reason: confidence is extremely attractive to a man and he will adore you all the more for it.
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A Woman Needs a Man as Her Husband
By Dalip singh Wasan, Advocate.
A woman knows that she shall not living all her life with her parents. She knows that one day she would be married and she shall be shifting to the house of her in laws and the main character in that house shall be her husband who had chosen her as his life partner. When she was growing young, she had been making so many images of of her would be husband. She wants that her husband should be properly educated, should be properly trained, properly adjusted at work, should be having handsome income, should be having good reputation, should be honest, should be having good health, should be able to protect her, should be able to give her love and affection and should be able to maintain her well so that she could live a life of her own. She wants that her husband should be a clean person, should not be inclined to another woman and should not be wasting more and more time on that lady. She wants that the husband may be having sisters and brothers, parents and some people to support, but at the same time he should be available to her and he must be taking care of her and should not be ignoring her in comparison with other members of the family. Such are the wishes of the woman who shall be coming to the house of a man and therefore, he must have knowledge about these wishes and desires of the woman who shall come to his house and till he has not prepared the grounds, he should not marry a girl, especially a girl with modern education and training and especially a woman who is already in job and is earning hand.
The man must prepare himself and must be able to show that he is the man of her dreams and the man who is really a life partner for her fixed by God before sending them on this earth. If some of the requirements are not there, there are no chances of a successful marriage and married life. She shall not be adjusted and a frustrated lady shall create all types of troubles in the house and the remaining part of life shall become a hell. Therefore, the man should prepare himself before his marriage and should not have a faith that the lady coming to his house shall be adjusting herself in all types of circumstances available in his house. Those are the days gone and now such ladies are not available in the society who shall be adjusting themselves in spite of all the hurdles and difficulties. Therefore, marriage to day is a contract and both sides must have to keep in mind the minimum conditions from both the side and only then this contract shall be finalized and executed properly.
A woman knows that she shall not living all her life with her parents. She knows that one day she would be married and she shall be shifting to the house of her in laws and the main character in that house shall be her husband who had chosen her as his life partner. When she was growing young, she had been making so many images of of her would be husband. She wants that her husband should be properly educated, should be properly trained, properly adjusted at work, should be having handsome income, should be having good reputation, should be honest, should be having good health, should be able to protect her, should be able to give her love and affection and should be able to maintain her well so that she could live a life of her own. She wants that her husband should be a clean person, should not be inclined to another woman and should not be wasting more and more time on that lady. She wants that the husband may be having sisters and brothers, parents and some people to support, but at the same time he should be available to her and he must be taking care of her and should not be ignoring her in comparison with other members of the family. Such are the wishes of the woman who shall be coming to the house of a man and therefore, he must have knowledge about these wishes and desires of the woman who shall come to his house and till he has not prepared the grounds, he should not marry a girl, especially a girl with modern education and training and especially a woman who is already in job and is earning hand.
The man must prepare himself and must be able to show that he is the man of her dreams and the man who is really a life partner for her fixed by God before sending them on this earth. If some of the requirements are not there, there are no chances of a successful marriage and married life. She shall not be adjusted and a frustrated lady shall create all types of troubles in the house and the remaining part of life shall become a hell. Therefore, the man should prepare himself before his marriage and should not have a faith that the lady coming to his house shall be adjusting herself in all types of circumstances available in his house. Those are the days gone and now such ladies are not available in the society who shall be adjusting themselves in spite of all the hurdles and difficulties. Therefore, marriage to day is a contract and both sides must have to keep in mind the minimum conditions from both the side and only then this contract shall be finalized and executed properly.
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How to Catch a Cheating Husband
By Sean Morissy
About the Author
Sean Morissy runs the hugely popular site dating woman, which helps you how to catch a cheating Spouse, which is very common in today’s husband and wives. Are you worried about cheating Spouse? Here you can find best book related to it.
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Over the years, a number of studies have been performed to determine information specific to a cheating spouse. Compiled information shows that 85% of women who believe their spouse is having an affair are right. In addition, these studies show that 50% of men who feel the wife is cheating, is right. Therefore, if you are married and your gut is telling you that something is wrong, chances are in your favor that something suspicious is going on.
In this article, we wanted to address some of the ways in which you could catch a cheating husband. Obviously, the future of the marriage would depend on recognizing the telltale signs of an affair. If the affair were confirmed, then a couple would need to decide the future direction of the marriage. Of course, the wife would need to decide if she were willing to stay and work hard to rebuild the marriage or move on.
Interestingly, more than 800 different signs can show if a husband is cheating, some that you may find surprising. Although we cannot cover them all in one article, we did want to provide you with the various categories in which these signs fall, as well as a few specific things you could watch for if suspicious of your husband cheating.
Physical Appearance
Relating to the Wife
Conversation/Communication
Work Habits
Daily Behavior
Finances
Travel
Behavioral Changes/Personality
Absences
Phone Tip-Offs
Clues with the Car
Eating Habits
Taste and Smell
Home Invasion
Gifts
Computer/Cell Phone/Pager Use
Physical Evidence
Disclosure or Slip-Ups
Of these categories, we will touch on the first four, giving you ways in which you can catch your husband cheating. Again, knowing the signs will help build your case so you can eventually confront him with the truth.
•Physical Appearance – If you were to notice your husband taking greater interest in his physical appearance, you might wonder why. For instance, a sudden interest in working out at the gym, wearing hair in a new style, different or new clothing, and overall personal hygiene could all be signs of an affair.
•Relating to the Wife – Sometimes, a cheating husband will begin to act
differently to the wife. For instance, the husband may no longer be interested in conversation, he may stop opening the car door, or perhaps he no longer wants to dine out for date night, and so on. While these signs are not definite for an affair, they could be indicators.
•Conversation/Communication – Often times, a husband having an affair will become quiet. This means normal conversation/communication diminishes or stops altogether.
•Work Habits – A cheating husband will try to find ways of getting out of the home, using work as an excuse. Therefore, you would find him attending more long or after-hour meetings, needing to travel out of town, or blaming overload on spending more hours at the office.
About the Author
Sean Morissy runs the hugely popular site dating woman, which helps you how to catch a cheating Spouse, which is very common in today’s husband and wives. Are you worried about cheating Spouse? Here you can find best book related to it.
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Mistakes Men Make in Relationships
By Joy Bates
It’s a known fact that men and women are situated on opposite ends of the relationship spectrum. Although they share similar human traits, men are more driven by logic as opposed to emotions as women do. As a result, they think, feel, and act differently when interacting with their partners and dealing with life’s challenges. Generally speaking, men are unemotional, collected, rational, and analytical, while women are emotional, reactive, sensitive, and sentimental. It’s no wonder their friendly chats occasionally end up in the battle of the sexes. With this in mind, love and harmony can be achieved in relationships. Men and women just need to embrace their differences.
To shed more light on this interesting topic, the following are some of the most common mistakes men make in relationships:
• Men are candid about their partners’ looks. In order to get attention and assurance from their partners, most women would solicit their thoughts on their appearance. They would pose questions such as, “do you think I gained weight” or “do you like my new hairstyle”? Naturally, women expect positive reactions from their sweethearts. If men wish to avoid any argument with their wives or girlfriends, they need to refrain from giving negative responses or feedback.
• Men automatically launch into “problem-solving” mode when they are presented with issues by their partners. The reality is women run to their significant others for emotional support regarding their workplace woes, family problems, among other things. They are not searching for solutions. They simply want to “vent”. In return, they just need their partners to listen and provide comforting words like “everything will be ok”. A nice hug would also do the trick.
• Men tend to express their honest views of another woman’s beauty to their wives or girlfriends. Big mistake! Typically, women put their men to the test to ensure that they still find them attractive. For example, they would ask, “do you think Jennifer is pretty?” If a man answers yes to that question, World War III would break out.
• When women provide suggestions or advice to their husbands or boyfriends on any topic, they get defensive and perceive their friendly gesture as intimidating and condescending. They interpret their innocent help as a form of criticism, attack, and condemnation. They feel their intelligence is being challenged.
• Men are not romantic enough. Women crave to be told and shown how much they are loved and desired by their partners in countless ways. They long to be hugged, kissed, touched, caressed, and told how beautiful and sexy they are. And, to solidify these romantic overtures, flowers, love notes, or a stroll on the sandy beaches of a tropical island are encouraged.
• Men hardly participate with household chores. In the past, men were the sole breadwinners and women’s place in society was at home. Today, men and women both earn a living and therefore should have their share of domestic responsibilities.
• Men have the natural tendency of hiding their true feelings concerning their careers, family life, and so on. This can be problematic and can cause a serious communication breakdown. If this behavior persists, it will slowly destroy the relationship.
Men and women have similarities and differences in their approach to relationships and life in general. In order to make the marriage or relationship flourish, both genders should be aware of their differences and accept them wholeheartedly.
About the Author
Joy Bates is a co-owner of relationship-remedy.com, which provides articles, e-books, advice, and the like pertaining to relationships. Come visit our website http://www.relationship-remedy.com, your gateway to a happy relationship.Love Letters
By Shweeta Bhandari
It is often said that Language is the poetry of the soul. When you wish to speak of your love for that one special person, what other better way to do so than by speaking out your heart on perfumed paper, and sealed with a kiss? Yes, we are referring to the humble love letter.
Love letters have their firm place in history, the cause of alliances and the reason for wars. Yet, very few delights can compare to the sweet sorrow that one feels, while writing a love letter. The mode of sending a letter across was also quite different earlier. One would use pigeons for the purpose, or simply send it through a trusted friend. Today too, a love letter is rated as one of the topmost ways of saying I Love You. There is something humble, direct and romantic about reading words on paper. More importantly, you can keep on reading the letter as and when you wish, and even sleep with it under your pillow if you desire. Today, thanks to the commercialization of love itself, one can get so many choices even in letter pads. Gone are the days of plain white paper, now it comes in different shapes, sizes, patterns and colors.
Of course not all of us can speak out matters of the heart with such eloquence like an orator. Which is why for the rest of us we can now refer to websites which will help us say what we want the right way? There are sites with ready love letters already put up. All you need to do is copy them word for word, and then post the letter to your love. One cannot deny however that in the face of technology, a handwritten love letter still holds its own place.
Love letters as the name suggests always brings smile on your face. Earlier when there was not internet and other modes of communication then letter is used as the primary way to communicate with the people who used to be distant apart. Mailing a love letter expresses more feelings and emotions than an electronic love letter. Originally you can put all the stuff you wanted to be sent with the love letter. Colors like red, purple, pink, yellow are used most while writing a love letter.
Would you like to send love letters electronically? There are many other websites as well who are providing lovely and romantic love letters, so better to search on internet and then find the best for you depending upon the situation in which you are. If your lover of friend is apart from you and at very long distance then letters are the best media for conversions. These days no doubt emails are there to communicate but sending letters through mail has its own dignity and value. Put some colors of happiness, cent of love, attachment of feelings and emotions and see you will get a perfect letter carrying your message to your beloved or near or dear ones.
About the Author
Shweeta Bhandari is an renowned writer in poems, quotes, romance, romantic quotes & relationships. She is a professional content writer working for Best Quotes Poems
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As December rolls in for another round of the Holidays, I think we all have to ponder what really makes us happy. It is a time of the year which promotes spending, but at the same time provides many unique opportunities to give and to provide others with kind services. It is a time of the year where families are able to come together and to cherish past traditions and memories.
So what really does make us happy? For some happiness comes in providing happiness to others. Giving is one of the best ways to go about providing this to others. It is interesting to see how much consumers will spend in order to provide the latest and greatest gifts during the Holidays to help others feel of their love. Giving doesnt necessarily mean that one needs to spend, rather time can be given to help those who might be less fortunate that others. Happiness can be found in giving of your own talents and skills to help someone. Their appreciation for these simple acts are sure to provide happiness and meaning to life. There is no wrong or right way, the important thing is that you discover something that makes you happy.
Spending time with loved ones is another way of finding happiness. Around the Holidays families tend to gather, some travel from all distances to see loved ones who have spread to different corners of the world. It is a time when families can bring back those special moments that life has provided for them and share with those who they care most about. These times are those that can provide true happiness, a feeling of complete enjoyment and acceptance.
Finding true love is one of the best ways to find happiness. There is something about being with the person that you love. Moments when it doesnt matter what you do or say, its just about being together. Laughing about things that dont have any significance, but talking about some of your deepest thoughts and dreams without having to hold anything back because you know you are loved for exactly who you are. A true love will know you for the person you are and see the potential that lays within you. You will never feel more yourself than when you are spending time with that one true love. This is where happiness can be found.
Happiness can come from many different areas. It is a feeling that once found, is difficult to let go; because it makes life worth living. It is a feeling which brings out the best in people and can inspire others to have those same thoughts and feelings. Laughter can be heard, smiles can be seen, and lives can be changes when it is around.
So what really does make us happy? For some happiness comes in providing happiness to others. Giving is one of the best ways to go about providing this to others. It is interesting to see how much consumers will spend in order to provide the latest and greatest gifts during the Holidays to help others feel of their love. Giving doesnt necessarily mean that one needs to spend, rather time can be given to help those who might be less fortunate that others. Happiness can be found in giving of your own talents and skills to help someone. Their appreciation for these simple acts are sure to provide happiness and meaning to life. There is no wrong or right way, the important thing is that you discover something that makes you happy.
Spending time with loved ones is another way of finding happiness. Around the Holidays families tend to gather, some travel from all distances to see loved ones who have spread to different corners of the world. It is a time when families can bring back those special moments that life has provided for them and share with those who they care most about. These times are those that can provide true happiness, a feeling of complete enjoyment and acceptance.
Finding true love is one of the best ways to find happiness. There is something about being with the person that you love. Moments when it doesnt matter what you do or say, its just about being together. Laughing about things that dont have any significance, but talking about some of your deepest thoughts and dreams without having to hold anything back because you know you are loved for exactly who you are. A true love will know you for the person you are and see the potential that lays within you. You will never feel more yourself than when you are spending time with that one true love. This is where happiness can be found.
Happiness can come from many different areas. It is a feeling that once found, is difficult to let go; because it makes life worth living. It is a feeling which brings out the best in people and can inspire others to have those same thoughts and feelings. Laughter can be heard, smiles can be seen, and lives can be changes when it is around.
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By Kristin Denton & Paul Sterling
Remember how your relationship was in the very beginning?
You stayed up all night talking about everything - your dreams and desires and even the things that scare or embarrass you. But then, as the relationship went a long, you stopped talking about so much. Everything became so heavy and meaningful.
In the beginning, things were great. There was a level of trust and open communication that created intimacy and understanding. So, what happened to that? Where did it go and how can you get it back?
I used to try to protect my partner from those heavy, bad moods and ugly thoughts. I went to my room and hung out until I felt like socializing again.
I thought I was noble in my ability to control what came out of my mouth.
I thought I was kind because I never let on what I was thinking.
But what I was doing was ruining my relationships. There was no relationship. I was cutting myself off from others and never allowing them to know me. They never knew what I was thinking or feeling or needing.
I was an island. A very lonely island.
I really thought that if I let people know the ugly thoughts, not only would they be hurt - but they would probably become angry and disown me - betray me, talk shit behind my back. I would be the outcast.
So I beat them to the punch! Hah! I'd banish myself to my own room (or apartment, as I got older). I'd banish myself to silence.
You can either have a N.I.C.E. (Not Interested in Connecting Emotionally) relationship... where you hide what is true out of fear. Or you can have an alive, real relationship with intimacy, compassion and understanding.
Some people withhold from their partner and add an extra zinger -- they put on a show of pain and discomfort in order to punish them. It's an effort to communicate just how much pain they're in. But none of it's verbalized. It's a show of the pain.
When you start keeping secrets and withholding,.. when you cut off the sharing of life force between you,... you're cutting off the intimacy in your relationship. Even if you think you're protecting your partner from painful or embarrassing thoughts - it's still destroying your relationship.
Relationships require sharing... both our dreams and desires along with our doubts and fears.
What are you feeling and what needs of yours are being met or not? ...
I'm happy because my need for support in keeping our home is being met.
I'm disappointed because my need for partnership isn't being met in the way we're handling our finances.
I'm sad because my need for connection isn't being met when you're out with your friends every evening.
You can find out more about this style of intimate communication, along with other advice on building healthy, intimate relationships, at our website: www MagicRelationship dot com.
Another tip: when you offer your feelings and needs, it's best to follow them with a request. If you offer them without a request, your partner won't know why you're giving them the information.
Do you want to be just heard?
Do you want advice?
Do you want to come up with a strategy for meeting your needs? Why the heck are you telling me this?
Often, a comment without a request will be taken as blame... which will lead to fixing, fighting or fleeing. Don't leave your poor partner hanging.
Paul and I recommend asking, "Would you tell me what you heard me say?" (Avoid saying 'could'- it implies they aren't intelligent enough to repeat you. And avoid saying "What did I say?" because what you said and what they heard are two different things.)
And one more tip: don't think that little behaviors are enough to be warranted as 'sharing feelings and needs.' Fixing your honey a cup of coffee in the morning is very sweet, but it may not communicate your feelings of love and contentment like actually verbalizing the information. "I love you so much", PLUS the cup of coffee goes much further.
Frowning and throwing around the bed covers while you make the bed may not adequately communicate your feelings and needs, either.
Instead, say: "I'm feeling disappointed because my need for support around the house isn't being met. Would you be willing to discuss a way to help that would also meet your needs?"
There's no room for misinterpretation there.
Try it out this holiday season: make a pact with your beloved to share absolutely ALL your feelings and needs for one day - the good, the bad and the ugly. Then follow the information with a request.
Be prepared to spend some time processing and discussing those feelings and needs as they come up.
However, try to avoid getting into BLAMING and 'FAULT' behind the feelings and needs. That tends to end up in a free-for-all about evaluations and judgments - who's right and who's wrong. Try to stick with feelings, needs and requests.
Try to do this on a day when you'll have the time.
You won't want to get cut off because you have to run to pick up the kids right when you're getting to the heart of an issue that's snuck up silently between you.
You're going to want to stay and hold each other and talk it through... and feel the intimacy of clearing out all of those old, crusty feelings and unmet needs that have been clogging the flow of love.
And, again, you can find out more about this style of intimate communication for relationships, at our website - www MagicRelationship dot com - a along with advice on building healthy relationships.
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Kristin Denton & Paul Sterling teach Relationship Communication Skills - Live Seminars or Tele-Classes including - 4 Steps To Instant Intimacy & Understanding - Relationship-Wrecking Mistakes -To get a free copy of 'The 5 Mistakes Report' go to http://www.magicRelationship.com/freeaccess
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