Friday, January 25, 2008

I Wanna Go Home - Michael Buble

Another summer day,
has come and gone away,
in Paris or Rome,
but I wanna go home
Mm….


Maybe surrounded by,
a million people I,
still feel all alone,
just wanna go home
Oh I miss you, you know


And I’ve been keeping all the letters that I wrote to you,
each one a line or two,
“I’m fine baby, how are you?”
Well I would send them but I know that it’s just not enough
My words were cold and flat,
and you deserve more than that


Another aeroplane,
another sunny place,
I’m lucky I know,
but I wanna go home
Mm, I gotta go home


Let me go home~…
I’m just too far, from where you are,
I wanna come home


And I feel just like I’m living someone else’s life,
it’s like I just stepped outside,
when everything was going right
And I know just why you could not come along with me,
this was not your dream,
but you always believed~ in me


Another winter day,
has come and gone away,
in even Paris and Rome,
and I wanna go home,
let me go home…


And I’m surrounded by,
a million people I,
still feel alone and let me go home,
Oh, I miss you, you know


Let me go home~…
I’ve had my run,
baby, I`m done,
I gotta go home
Let me go home~…
It’ll all be alright,
I’ll be home tonight,
I’m coming back home…

Communication Breakdown

It happens to the best of us. Communication is such a fickle thing, and the lines of communication can become blurred every so often, especially when feelings are involved. Even those who think that they are immune to the confusion of conflict can find themselves drawn into a communication breakdown when they least expect it, and chaos ensues.

This happened to me on the weekend, and until to be quite honest, it took me by surprise. Even those of us who are better equipped than many others are not immune. My partner told me something that really hurt my feelings, and I lashed back in defense. It was a silly argument, over something as simple as a misplaced bottle of aftershave. But to me, it represented something much deeper, that had been simmering away for a couple of weeks. I get frustrated at having to search for something when it is not where I expect it to be. Worse still when my partner has shifted it and I don’t know the first place to begin searching.

Aftershave, needles and thread, car keys, a Tupperware container to store my baking soda in, covers for our outdoor chairs, all were examples of instances where I had to turn the house upside-down. A simple answer from my partner when these things were shifted would have saved me a lot of time and frustration. And the answer I got? "You need to open your eyes and organize yourself better"

I was gutted. When I come home from work I exercise the dog and cook dinner so that it is on the table by the time my partner gets home. The house is always spotless and warm, as I’m very conscious of coming home to a tidy environment. I see this as a fundamental part of my role in coming home first, and it takes a lot of my time. To imply that I have the time to "organize yourself better" really hurt.

I don’t expect praise, but I did hope that my efforts were recognized. I got told that "I don’t expect you to cook my dinner every night" was interpreted by me as ingratitude, and hurt me even more.

So where to from here? My partner felt guilty at coming home every night to the perfect household, whereas I felt guilty if it wasn’t perfect. It was never about me trying to make him feel guilty, but it seems it did. And this is where the communication fell down. He misinterpreted my efforts, and I misinterpreted his response.

Communication, communication, communication. I need for my partner to keep me informed of where things move to. I need to be informed. I need to voice my frustration before it gets to boiling point. We both need to talk about our feelings more, and how each of our contributions to our home and our relationship make us feel, and how we interpret each others contributions. It is not a competition, but for many couples it feels like it.

When people feel guilt or stress, it leads them to act funny ways. Often stress and guilt are barriers to communication. The key to overcoming them is to recognize what it is, and have the courage to talk about it. You might be able to do it as a couple, or you might want the help of a friend who can listen to the way you are communicating with each other and offer insights and advice.

We got it sorted out, and kissed and hugged. It wouldn’t hurt so much if I didn’t feel such love at the same time. But it served as a good reminder to me. Sometimes you get so wrapped up in your own emotions that you forget to think of the other person. You also need to entertain the possibility that you are misinterpreting each other. Talking about it is the way to expose the miscommunication and let the healing begin.

A good lesson to learn, even for the experts…

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I'll Make Love To You - Boyz II Men

Close your eyes, make a wish
And blow out the candlelight
For tonight is just your night
We’re gonna celebrate, all thru the night
Pour the wine, light the fire
Girl your wish is my command
I submit to your demands
I’ll do anything, girl you need only ask

I’ll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I’ll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I’ll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
Till you tell me to

Girl relax, let’s go slow
I ain’t got nowhere to go
I’m just gonna concentrate on you
Girl are you ready, it’s gonna be a long night
Throw your clothes on the floor
I’m gonna take my clothes off too
I made plans to be with you
Girl whatever you ask me you know I’ll do

I’ll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I’ll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I’ll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
Till you tell me to

Baby tonight is your night
And I will do you right
Just make a wish on your night
Anything that you ask
I will give you the love of your life

Does She Really Love You?

Did you hear that? She just said: "I love you." If you live in the 18th century, you could have slapped the rusticated walls with joy. You could have been jumping all day and has gathered all flowers in the prairie to offer her. You could have chased the moons and do all the impossibilities for that much awaited phrases said by millions of chivalrous men that lived and died for their beloved ladies. I love you.

It turned out that you involuntarily build up wrinkles in your young face when she mumbled it because it is the 21st century and all the greeting cards in the world is mechanically printed with "I love you/s" on it. Then you opened her card and find the phrases on it. Your girl is too verbal about the whole affair that all her friends know that she loves you as she says. The commodity is too cheaply spoken. You heard her saying it even to her poodle. With all the silence broken by benefit of doubts, now you wonder in your subconscious thinking: "Does she really love me?"

If you have this kind of thinking, then you will really have a hard time accepting love and getting it in return. Before you even ponder on the answer, better look in the mirror and recall if you always have these doubts in the past relationships you had. If not, then it's time to make a better and more scientific approach.

Are you diagnosed psychologically? Seriously, then this could justify why you cannot accept realities in its simple form. Otherwise, everything is environmental and can be dealt with.

Here are the signs that a person really loves you:

* ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS:

Is she always there when you have dates? If not, does she leave you considerate words of excuse and make it easy for you by not letting you wait for an hour or so before even telling that she will not be coming. She treats you well by meeting halfway with what you both agree with. In other words, she will show it in her actions even without saying. You cannot expect someone saying, "I love you" all the time yet you caught her dating somebody else without your consent.

* ONE CANNOT LOVE WITHOUT GIVING

Does she try to please you with abstract things that you did not yet you get it from her? If she truly loves you, then she will find out what you want in a creative way and try to make sure that you get it. It could come in small gifts small gifts such as books related to your interests, a small gadget or any stuff. Without involving cash, it could be a kiss on the cheek that you longed for. It is something that has impact on you that come in small packages that make both of you happy.

* LOVE IS LIBERATING

If your girl clings to you constantly, turning your gazes only to her, does not want you to even use the computer other than checking your email, gets angry when you overlooked her birthday, and wants all attention focused on her, then you will end up feeling exhausted in her confinement. If she wants to drive your life's goal to her interests alone, wants you to forget your loved ones, wants to see you every minute and most of all, does not want to release you when you want to get off her, then she is not truly in love with you. She is having you as a vanity.

* LOVE IS SUSTAINED BY MAINTENANCE

If she is constantly working out with you to make up for the mistakes and failures of your relationship, then it has chances of lingering and getting a wholesome journey. If it is only you, or only one of you is constantly working out to fill up the space that missing between you, then your relationship could die. You must see that she is doing the initiative with you for quality relationship.

Initially, it is only you who can judge if the relationship could be taken to its ultimate bond, which is marriage. It will take a lot of factors to know an individual based on her environment and social heredity. It is immaterial to have evidence if the person truly loves you just for personal satisfaction. Most of the time, it is a combination of opposite feelings, which in the end you will find out in old age...that is if she is still with you.

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The Way - Clay Aiken

Theres something bout the way you look tonight
Theres something bout the way that i can’t take my eyes off you.
Theres something bout the way your lips invite
Maybe its the way that i get nervous when your around.
And I want you to be mine
And if u need a reason why

Its in the way that you move me
And the way that you tease me
The way that I want you tonight
Its in the way that youhold me
And the way that you know me
When I can’t find the right words to say
You feel it in the way, you feel it in the way.

Theres something bout how you stay on my mind
Theres something bout the way that I whisper your name when I’m asleep Oh no..
Maybe its the look you get in your eyes
Oh baby its the way that makes me feel to see you smile
And the reasons they may change but what i’m feeling stays the same.

I can’t put my fingers on just what it is that makes me love you, you baby
So don’t ask me to describe, I get all chokedup inside
Just thinking bout the way..

If Tomorrow Never Comes - Ronan Keating

Sometimes late at night,
I lie awake and watch her sleeping
She’s lost in peaceful dreams so I turn out the lights,
lay there in the dark
And the thought crosses my mind,
if I never wake, in the morning
Would she ever doubt,
the way I feel about her in my heart

If tomorrow never comes,
will she know how much I loved her
That I try in every way,
to show her every day,
that she’s my only one
If my time on earth were through
She must face this world without me
Is the love I gave her in the past,
gonna be enough to last,
if tomorrow never comes

’cause I’ve lost love once in my life,
who never knew how much I loved them
Now I live with the regret that my true feelings for them,
never were revealed
So I made a promise to myself,
to say each day how much she means to me
And avoid that circumstance where there’s no second chance,
to tell her how I feel

So tell that someone that you love,
just what you’re thinking of,
if tomorrow never comes

Kiss Her Better Than The Other Guy

By Chris Williams

Because of the nature of my writing it is essential that I have a large number of women friends. Of course they rarely completely agree on every topic. However, there is one thing that every single one of them is in universal agreement about.

...Bad kissers immediately lose any chance of sleeping with them.

Yes, apparently, a guy can do everything right all evening but if he sucks (sometimes literally) at kissing she'll immediately say her grandma is dying and get the hell out of there.

Why is a simple thing like kissing such a big deal to women? Well, in her mind, if a guy can't do an easy thing like kissing well, he's probably not going to be that great at other sensual things either.

Fortunately, you don't have to be one of those guys. Study the following kissing tips and leave the getting ditched to the other chumps.

Make sure you're kissable

This one's easy but definitely necessary. Start by practicing good dental hygiene. Brush your teeth and tongue regularly, floss, and use mouthwash.

Carry breath mints if you think there is even a small chance you will be kissing. Don't forget a tube of chapstick to keep your lips soft and smooth. Make sure it's not medicated chapstick though, that stuff tastes terrible.

Avoid foods with an unpleasant or strong aftertaste. These include garlic, onions, and most spicy foods. Don't smoke unless she does.

Pick the right moment

Don't force her into a kiss. Make sure she wants it first.

How will you know for sure? Check her body language. If she smiles a lot, touches you shamelessly, and bites or licks her lips, she probably wants it.

Start with a closed mouth kiss and go from there

Don't just stick out your tongue and plow in. Start with a gentle, closed-mouth kiss. Don't worry, it will escalate.

When you go in for the kiss do it with confidence. Act like you've kissed her a million times. This may be hard, but remember that confidence is the number one turn-on for women. Take advantage of that.

Use your hands

This doesn't mean you have a license to grope around like a horny moron. It simply means you need to place your hands where they will have maximum effect. One of the best hand placements for a French kiss goes like this: Left hand on her hip, right hand on her side between her waist and underarm.

If that position isn't possible, you can touch her back, hair, neck, or even the side of her face.

Take it slow

If your closed-mouth kiss didn't freak her out, try opening your lips slightly. She should reciprocate at this point and it's on!

Take it to the next level by opening your mouth a little more and gently touch her tongue with yours. Keep the touch of your tongue and lips soft. French kissing can be likened to dancing in that a good kisser will smoothly flow and adapt to what their partner is doing.

Do yourself a favor. Don't treat kissing as a stepping stone to other activities. She'll know what you're thinking and it will piss her off. A good kisser treats kissing like the main event. He kisses like he's enjoying every second and doesn't want to do anything else. Ironically, this is exactly what makes her want to do everything else.

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